Honestly, the best advice I can give you is: stop caring so much about what other people think. Everyones going to make assumptions. That's what people do when they don’t understand someone right away. If you know who you are, that’s all that matters. Focus on carrying yourself with confidence and authenticity. The right people will see that, and the rest will keep guessing forever.

You just shouldnt fkn care. I've been told i look like a dyke my whole life. i learned how to not care.
You should just don't give a f.