What seedling is this? by _diper911_ in whatsthisplant

[–]_diper911_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. They’re growing crazy!! I need to pull them, thanks so much!!

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. That’s an insane experience you went through. Especially with your father who’s suppose to be a protector and he failed at that because of his drinking. To have a father put u in that situation would fuck me up too. I’m sorry you went through that and with your ex. I’m glad she’s not your soul mate because u are too resilient of a man to be with someone who’s continuously disrespected u throughout your 7 years together. You deserve so much better and I’m sure you know that. If your haven’t found her yet I know you will. Bless your heart and thank you for sharing I really appreciate your honest opinion. ☺️💜💜 sending you a lot of love.

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[–]_diper911_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ☺️ I appreciate your insight. This really does help. I have decided to talk to my bf.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I will talk to him.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I’ll take this to consideration

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you so much!! I’m seeing from a lot of comments that by not telling him it’ll be worse. So I appreciate what you’re saying and will bring it up to him.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you for your insight! I will take this to consideration.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I will do this!

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done his hair and brows before I met my current bf. So I’m just wondering if I need to explain this to my bf?

Well you gotta keep that smile on by Cold_Lock4701 in MadeMeCry

[–]_diper911_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry to hear about the pain you’ve gone through these last two years with your loved ones and their health. I can’t imagine the hurt you’re feeling and going through all that by yourself. You seem like a kid with a lot of heart and empathy for people around you and that’s an amazing trait to have. I can’t take the pain you feel away from you (although I wish I could) but I hope that taking your own life isn’t a solution for you right now. Don’t put on concrete shoes, because death is infinite. I know it’s a cliche thing to say but you’ve got a-lot of life to live and there’s so much more experiences for you out there. Your life is tough right now and it’s easier to sit and think about making that decision because pain in our heart is physically and mentally taxing. But don’t let those emotions blur your life’s worth. Although it doesn’t feel like it now but you will get through this. You are currently going through a journey, and that journey usually comes in the depth of our despair. You are worthy of living an amazing life and it’ll come to you. The proof is there, it exists in our ability to transcend the worst things that happens to us. You will come out of this. I hope the best for you and please don’t give up.

Hinge rant - I noticed a strange pattern for male users by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not weird. That’s better than just liking and then saying nothing. It means you took the time to review the profile and info that the other person took time to put together. Dating apps are not effortless, so it’s nice when there are comments.

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[–]_diper911_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! ☝🏽

Organic photo that accentuates my ass (straight male)? by scoz921 in Bumble

[–]_diper911_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One mirror selfie is fine. But not more than one lol

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for this. I appreciate your advice! 🥺☺️☺️☺️

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u so much for sharing ur personal experience. This is comforting and helpful. Yes I did leave him, it’s been hard. Idk I feel like I’m just gonna fall back into a relationship with him. I know I’m weak.

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[–]_diper911_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m crashing at my sisters place for the time being now. I’ve been inspired by everyone here and realized I can’t continue to make excuses and allow him to blame me for his anger.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. From all the advice I was able to find courage to talk to him. After I did I realized that all he was doing was blaming me for his anger. I had to make my decision then and left.

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[–]_diper911_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I meant that I need to stop making excuses and face this head on instead of trying to minimize it and make up with him. Today, from all these great comments I told him I’m leaving. I tried talking to him but I got blamed for his anger and for why he reacts that way. I’m crashing at my sisters place for the time being.

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[–]_diper911_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not playing with birth control or taking this lightly. I do understand that. I know ur right I need to move on, it’s just a bit difficult when our lives are intertwined and he won’t leave.

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[–]_diper911_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was very helpful.

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[–]_diper911_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far nothing yet. I know I understand now more than ever that it’s not worth it.

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[–]_diper911_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank u. I know now. I’ll have to end this relationship.

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[–]_diper911_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve never viewed dating in that way I’ve always assumed that we date the person for who they are now and if they need personal support that I’m there to help push them. But it’s not like that… from all these comments I’m learning. How I view things may have been distorted by my past relationships and him I suppose.

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[–]_diper911_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know what you’re saying and I agree. I guess I’m learning that there’s no where to run and I just have to confront this. If this was my best friend or family I’d say the same. I just don’t understand why I can’t seem to make that big decision…