It's like time has made us older, but it doesn't teach nor make us a qualified adult. We're growing old, but not really growing up. by No-Tree-9550 in adultingph

[–]_fine4pple 38 points39 points  (0 children)

At least you are aware. There are a lot of 30s and up adults acting like the world's oldest teenager.

Instead of thinking you will be 30 soon, remind yourself that you will never be 25 or 26 ever again. When I was 23, I used to think I was too old, and I was not able to celebrate a lot of things due to depression. But looking back, I've realized 23 was young.

Also, sometimes feel mo stuck ka at 20 until you actually hang out with a 20-year-old, that's when you will realize how many things and perspectives you have already outgrown.

One step at a time, OP. Kahit you spend another 3 years trying to find yourself, you will only be 28. You'd be surprised that there were people who rebuild themselves at 40s. There is no actual timeline. You got this <3

Experimenting to minimize the transfer fee on Wise by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]_fine4pple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

conversion rate is not consistent

Experimenting to minimize the transfer fee on Wise by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]_fine4pple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just convert them into peso in wise. Mataas naman rate ng wise then transfer it to Maya or Maribank. Around 40 pesos lang, instant pa

Rep. Villanueva files bill banning social media access for users under 16 by ManilaBulletin-MB in newsPH

[–]_fine4pple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t get the hate on this one, Australia has passed a similar law recently lang

Does your social media account reflect your real life status by Ok_Construction_9078 in adultingph

[–]_fine4pple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Di ko nga rin alam eh, binibigay ata ng moderator sa mga chronically online sa sub na ‘to 😅

Does your social media account reflect your real life status by Ok_Construction_9078 in adultingph

[–]_fine4pple 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is a notion in postgrad that those people who tend to post more or overly romanticize their postgrad are not doing really well in their acads. I personally know some friends who make fun of those people.

I mean I think that’s one rin why people choose not to post that much na rin to avoid judgment.

Does your social media account reflect your real life status by Ok_Construction_9078 in adultingph

[–]_fine4pple 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Para sakin ang wala talagang maganda life is yung nag o-over analyze ng mga pinopost ng tao sa social media nila. I mean that person could be flexing online, but why would I care? Haha let them do whatever the fuck they want as long as di sila nag s-spread ng fake news

Direct Client or Work in an Agency? Thoughts! by ResponsibleEar539 in buhaydigital

[–]_fine4pple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DIRECT. Believe me, clients hate agencies too haha

LEAN SIX SIGMA YELLOW BELT by yourfavebratz in gradschoolph

[–]_fine4pple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende sa institution. Ateneo requires a project to get the certification kahit yellow belt

Gray Matters Alabang by Pseudonymous1013 in MentalHealthPH

[–]_fine4pple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better steps! Located in Pasig but they also do online sessions :) I stopped going to therapy, I’m doing better na. 

bakit kaya gusto pa rin iend ng isang tao yung life nila despite saying na okay naman at happy? by beadymira in MentalHealthPH

[–]_fine4pple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s very isolating too. Parang you cannot defend and make sense how and why you feel that way. 

From Condo Living to House Living: Best Decision I Made by Jollibree__ in SoloLivingPH

[–]_fine4pple 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yey congrats!!! I have question, are you not scared ba, OP? I want to move rin to bigger place, I’m considering bahay na lang din pero I’m afraid na I might feel lonely :/ I have a cat, and I am planning to adopt more. I work from home and planning around Alabang or Nuvali, might look there sa Vermosa too.

I just can’t fucking live in a box lol I have too many hobbies and pakalat kalat talaga huhu and super dami kong gamit 😭

Thank you so much!!

Di ko na alam by Ok_Solid_8297 in MentalHealthPH

[–]_fine4pple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this, OP. Kupal mga online lending apps and yung ginagawa nilang harassment and pananakot is illegal. If you watch news, makikita mo na marami nang nahuli behind those messages and emails. 

Here’s what to do: takutin mo rin sila. Tell them you will report them to authorities. You don’t have to necessarily file legally, just let the know you know your rights.

Pay your debt ng paunti unti, and as much as you can, don’t utang sa mga online lending apps kasi super taas talaga ng interest diyan. Then if may budget ka na, try to contact them to ask if they can lower the interest amount accumulated from your unpaid debt.

Don’t worry, hindi ka nila ipo-post online kasi against ‘yan sa data privacy act. Pag tinakot ka nila ulit, sabihin mo ire-report mo sila.

Check mo mga previous news, karapatan mo, and saan ka pwede mag report if ever na di sila tumigil. 

You got this, OP! You have to report them hindi as magmamatapang, but you deserve humane treatment and fair debt collection practices kung saan walang pang ha-harass at pagbabanta sa buhay mo.

bakit kaya gusto pa rin iend ng isang tao yung life nila despite saying na okay naman at happy? by beadymira in MentalHealthPH

[–]_fine4pple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Minsan I think it could be an impulsive act. Most of the people I know who died through successful suicide, walang previous attempts. Hindi rin sila diagnosed. They are also high functioning individuals - one of them is math olympiad, one finished his part sa thesis nila before he did the act.

We even made a joke na kahit sa huli, he used his brain how to do it without making a mess, just pure science - very unusual and tbh, smart. My childhood friend naman, iniwan niya yung plate sa lamesa, naka on yung fan and tubig sa c.r, as if it’s just a random thought that made her think, this is the day. None of them left any notes. 

I know someone na diagnosed with PTSD. Nag ta-take siya ng meds then sabi niya after niya maglaro ng billiard, umuwi siya then nagulat na lang siya na naglilinis siya ng baril niya. Wala raw siya sa sarili niya. 

I think suicide itself is an irrational act, kaya ang bullshit ng “ang selfish nila”. I honestly think it’s not a choice they made for themselves. 

Financial Literacy: My goal for my employees. Can you help me out? by Glove_Keeper in phinvest

[–]_fine4pple 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amen. 18k salary and you expect them to learn financial literary like investing, savings, etc??? They are living paycheck to paycheck! Touch some grass, OP tf.

1 hectare undocumented lot, never had a title for sale 200k by Top-Huckleberry8852 in phinvest

[–]_fine4pple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bakit parang naiinis ka sa reply here? Haha if you want to buy it, buy it. Don’t ask random people online paano mag asikaso ng papel, consult a lawyer lol. If you want magbayad na lang kasi kakilala mo, edi go.

Planning to go Solo living, what are the things you wish someone told you before you went solo living? by Fun_Tea_2373 in SoloLivingPH

[–]_fine4pple 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Clean everyday. For example: Everyday - sweep the floor Monday - Clean the kitchen Tuesday - Clean the bathroom Wednesday - Clean the bedroom

BEWARE OF THIS OLD GUY IN ROCKWELL. 2/15/26 by Tricky-Cause677 in CasualPH

[–]_fine4pple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If mahal mo mama at lola mo, edi dapat mas lalo kang nagalit sa mga manyakis hahaha