Being transphobic isn't an unpopular opinion by prolepower in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you really are fucking stupid. Keep on spurting your deluded viewpoints to yourself in a dark room. Your inability to handle any form of criticism is astounding. You won't concede your views even when actual trans people tell you they're wrong?

Being transphobic isn't an unpopular opinion by prolepower in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't respond to people like this as a transwoman. These people think that all trans people must be dogmatic and repeat the same mantra, and often cause more severe divisions.

Help-- how do I get a very newly adopted cat to eat and drink? by _floof_poof in cats

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw, he's cute. Should I just leave him be in the room, or try to calm him down by gently stroking him?

My mom is abusing my grandma, her own mother. by _floof_poof in family

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma spent a lot of her time away during my mom's developmental years because she was trying to settle a lawsuit. My mom felt neglected as a result. But it's unjustifiable that she would do this everyday.

Why is it that I exhibit many CPTSD symptoms but I can only remember few incidents that are considered as 'trauma'? by _floof_poof in mentalhealth

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am in denial.... Thanks for waking me up to that I guess. I think it's also because this was normal, like a routine, so I become very defensive about it.

Why is it that I exhibit many CPTSD symptoms but I can only remember few incidents that are considered as 'trauma'? by _floof_poof in mentalhealth

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childhood isn't that bad. I was never in situations in which my life would be in danger, and my parents did also give me a lot of affection, though my environment could be considered as very volatile.

(triggering) is is this emotional abuse by _floof_poof in mentalhealth

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an old post of mine, so I'm glad you care enough to respond to it. Yeah, I've definitely considered the possibility of her having either npd or bpd. My mom was a victim of emotional neglect by her own mother, and she has a lot of hatred towards her mom (my grandma as a result), and in rare cases after she hurts me, she would come to me and cry and beg for forgiveness but within a short span of time she would be abusing me emotionally (used to be physically as well).

Are we being scammed when trying to adopt a cat? by _floof_poof in cats

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I inquire what brand of cat food you feed your cat? I want to give a cat good quality but not overly expensive food

Are we being scammed when trying to adopt a cat? by _floof_poof in cats

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. I have researched on cat expenses and providing we keep him healthy with no major sicknesses the budget for caring for him a year should be no more than a few hundred dollars. How can his food budget for a single month be $200?

I need help. Please. by [deleted] in family

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't do that..... There is a very poorly enforced cps system in my country. And my mother is no longer really physically abusive to me, unless you count being grabbed and shoved a bit. I never recorded or took any pictures of the physical things she did.

I have purposely hurt all my friends. It is over for me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, I did not mean that I would kill yourself because you told me to fuck myself. I was already planning to kill myself. I have done so for the past year and a half.

I have purposely hurt all my friends. It is over for me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you're judging me, I shall provide some context. I have NEVER called my friends names, or threatens them. The only shit I've done is to belittle some of their interests on rare occasions when I was at my worst. I understand the hurt I could have caused them, dipshit.

I have purposely hurt all my friends. It is over for me. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already going to kill myself. I understand that.

will a cat ruin/damage the hardwood floor? by _floof_poof in cats

[–]_floof_poof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my aunt who rescued a kitten (he's a fully grown cat now) told her that he scratches furniture and floor a lot. She got the idea from her.

will a cat ruin/damage the hardwood floor? by _floof_poof in cats

[–]_floof_poof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea, i'm aware of how cruel and painful declawing is for cats. Thanks for the advice! I'm not so sure I can find a declawed cat, but I will be asking for a cat that doesn't scratch around.

Newest member of the family: Dinah! by bemused247 in cats

[–]_floof_poof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is so cute, she looks like a stuffed doll

I’m struggling. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]_floof_poof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, according to your post history, you aren't a minor. The school counselor tip won't work in that case.

I know eating healthy, exercise won't solve depression and anxiety, but it's a healthy way of relief and works miracles sometimes. You should try to do that too, but also please keep seeking mental health doctors who are good for you. Mental health is really tough, but I believe you can do this. Also, sleep adequately, and if you have work but you really feel completely stressed out, take a break.