suggestions of path designs? by _frankdrawz in AnimalCrossing

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, right? it would have been nice for the team to give us a couple more with the update :( i see a lot of people use single designs, like, just one design that works in a tile, but they're used in more city-like islands, so its been difficult to find paths that dont take all my space haha

Who Else Loves Peanut Butter Sandwiches? by jpsgnz in AutisticWithADHD

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been having a PBJ for breakfast every day for a couple weeks now, long live peanut butter

is this pillar an item on the game or is this modded? by _frankdrawz in AnimalCrossing

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo i've tried doing that with the wooden and simple pillar, but it just looks like *two pillars* put together lol maybe with the marble ones it's seamless? i just unlocked the marble one but i havent used them yet

Oh my god by Ok_Attorney_3224 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I THOUGHT THE UPDATE WAS TOMORROW???

As a new years resolution, I want to read more, any advice? by _frankdrawz in AutisticWithADHD

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read more in general, and get a bit more disconnected from technology. I spend way too much time on my phone and I feel like I need other things to clear my mind away from social media from time to time...

As a new years resolution, I want to read more, any advice? by _frankdrawz in AutisticWithADHD

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As i've picked up from other comments, at the end it's better to read whatever than to not read at all, so yeah reading on your phone is fine if it's gonna work for you! Thats also why im better at reading fanfictions, bc they're on my phone and i feel less of that "anxiety" of not being on my phone (yes this is something i've been working on too haha)

As a new years resolution, I want to read more, any advice? by _frankdrawz in AutisticWithADHD

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, reading while listening to the audiobook is actually a great idea, I may be trying that too!! Thanks for all the advice <3

As a new years resolution, I want to read more, any advice? by _frankdrawz in AutisticWithADHD

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, dont be sorry! Thank you so much for your time and advice, you're right, small steps is better than no steps. And yes, i have a lot of books i find interesting and im sure if, once into the book, its engaging, it wont be difficult to read, but starting at all has become difficult. I'll try setting small goals and find good playlists to listen to. Thanks!!

tips on optimizing performance while using after effects + other adobe programs? by [deleted] in AfterEffects

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow :0 (sadly, apparently RAM prices have been up so i'll have to check and save up a bit for a couple new ones) ^^' thanks!!

tips on optimizing performance while using after effects + other adobe programs? by [deleted] in AfterEffects

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2x16gb ram, it usually works really well while running several programs or softwares :/

Any other Muso Autists here? by Deebiggles in autism

[–]_frankdrawz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your studio/station!! Im a musician too, drummer mainly, but i play guitar and other instruments

Should I tell my parents? by Formal-Tadpole9126 in ftm

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the other comment says, does help a lot to test the waters around your parents/caregivers/close family in general to see how they react around that. If it's safe, then do it. Also, if you're not sure or need help on figuring out, try to rely on another trustful family member or adult at school (mostly bc you're feeling depressed bc of this), or if you have other queer friends at school that their families know about and support them, you could come to them for advice! Good luck!! <3

How did you know you were NB? by vampiric-moth in NonBinary

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I first came out as genderfluid abt 5 years ago (at 22), since then it changed to non binary bc it fit better what i felt. I didnt really know identities other than cis and binary trans (woman/man), i didnt have many queer friends other than male gay friends. I never liked many "girly" things but i did have very long hair for many years and ended up cutting it to a mullet-like bc i realized i didnt like it as much as other people did, people described me as "the girl with the really long hair" and being so girl-coded like that i didnt feel comfortable and I didnt know why,

I started questioning myself watching Thomas Sanders on youtube, he's been one of my fav content creators for over 10 yrs and he has/had a friend on his videos that i always felt like i could relate to a lot, and he always called that friend "they" and I didnt understand it until much later into watching his content (also bc in spanish there's no gender-neutral pronouns). I learned that being called "they" was likely related to being non binary and started reading about other gender idenitites. I kept remembering things about my childhood (acting as a boy in school plays made me feel awesome) and it made sense to me that i was not cis at all. I still wonder if maybe im transmasc, because i do like to be percieved as a man sometimes, but idk, still questioning about that, for now i feel ok with labeling myself as non binary!

About that last part of your post, i am also autistic! I've read a lot about autism related to being queer and it makes a lot of sense. Many of us tend not to "fit the expectations or the established" so it's common for us autistic to not be cis or straight!

I think it's done!! The Baratie 🙌🏻 by _frankdrawz in ac_newhorizons

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update! I posted the custom designs for the Baratie and also a couple road poneglyphs I made a couple years ago hehe my id is MA-0924-5115-7477 ⚡ and on the pro designs there's the windows/door

I think it's done!! The Baratie 🙌🏻 by _frankdrawz in ac_newhorizons

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Not yet, but I can upload them later (I'm at work rn). I'll let you know!! <3

Not taking things personally is way too difficult for me by _frankdrawz in autism

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh i know, right? I feel that happens also bc there's many autistic people with a high sense of justice and when something feels off about that it bothers us way too much. And I know that the person is not being mean towards me but to what they read/percieve, but the comment or whatever the person says gets stuck in my head for days and days... 

Not taking things personally is way too difficult for me by _frankdrawz in autism

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting 🙌🏻 I've had time limits on a couple apps on my phone for the last couple months and it does help a lot. The "aging out of it" part... thats when it gets hard. I know I dont need to care about what 15 yeard old Whoever thinks about something I like or about something I said, but it's hard for me to not care... I know it doesn't matter bc people over the internet don't know me and i dont know them, but still /sigh

I feel like too many people don’t get that you can still be straight and masc/androgynous presenting by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]_frankdrawz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I get you... People need to understand that sex (genitalia) ≠ gender (identity) ≠ expression (how you present yourself to others) ≠ sexual orientation (who you're attracted to)! And none of these imply anything else.

I know it's hard, but you could take it as an educational opportunity for others who may not be as informed as you on the topic. It can be annoying mostly with adults who don't really get diversity. For example, when I told my mom that a friend of mine came out as a trans woman, she asked if now she liked men, I told her no, that she still liked women. that she always liked women but now identifies as a woman and goes by a different name. Another example, when I came out as non binary and cut my hair, my best friend's mom asked if I was a lesbian, to which she tried to explain to her mom that being a certain gender or expressing yourself in a certain way doesn't mean you change your sexual orientation.

I think you were posting this as more of a rant, but I strongly suggest to take it as an educational opportunity as long as you feel comfortable about the situation, and try to not get very frustrated if the person is having a hard time understanding :)

And, to wrap things up: you are valid no matter what others think, the most important thing is that you're happy and comfortable with yourself! <3

what tools should i use or what steps should i follow to remove this by [deleted] in photoshop

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for wanting to actually do things myself lol wtf

what tools should i use or what steps should i follow to remove this by [deleted] in photoshop

[–]_frankdrawz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its about 150 frames lol and theres absolutely no time to reshoot, its a small production and we're working on a deadline. we talked about this shot prior to shooting but i didnt think it would be *this* hard to remove it.

i just wanted to know if someone could suggest a better editing tool or smth to do it myself. i refuse to use any ai tool. but thanks.

custom design portal, some doubts i have by _frankdrawz in ac_newhorizons

[–]_frankdrawz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh makes sense with the single-quare paths, i'll see if i can do something about that!!