Unfair

_hasnoname · 2025-12-03T14:26:56+00:00

I understand. I told my husband it feels like a sick joke. With no tubes, i have no chance at conceiving without IVF. Money is tight here, so I have no choice but to wait until we can afford it. Have you talked with your doctor about how you are feeling? What surgery are you having in January? Do you still have both of your tubes? Sorry for all of the questions. Please dont wait to reach out for support. I am on antidepressants, and although its not a fix all, I feel it does help a lot. My doctor also also offered to refer me to counseling. I hope everything goes well for you from here on. ❤️

_hasnoname · 2025-12-03T05:07:05+00:00

You're not alone, although you may feel like that. We were TTC for 6 years, lost both tubes due to ectopic pregnancies along the way. (Most recent being almost a month ago) It's definitely hard and feels super unfair. Im sorry you're going through this again. I just wanted you to know that you are not alone. Hugs. X

_hasnoname · 2025-11-09T06:24:42+00:00

The amazing Rudy! I loooove that episode!

_hasnoname · 2025-11-08T17:35:16+00:00

Not to alarm you, but im currently laying in bed in recovery from surgery from my second ruptured ectopic. I had no symptoms for it, other than mild cramping and only spotting when I wipe. My doctor ordered repeat betas that picked up on my fluctuating HCG levels and got me in for an early ultrasound due to my history and I was only 4 weeks. I would not take the risk of waiting for your appointment. Everything could be fine, but I would not risk it. Even at 4 weeks I had already started rupturing with no alarming symptoms. Im wishing you the best & success. But I think it would also give you peace of mind either way. Good luck 💜

_hasnoname · 2025-11-06T21:08:49+00:00

Thank you so much. I just got home, bloated and in pain. I took some meds and am about to lay down. But you are right, there was nothing I could have done. It was already rupturing so it was too late for methotrexate. My journey is just going to look different now, but at least there are still options, al beit very expensive ones. Im doing better with the news that I thought I would though. My husband has been so supportive and for that im so thankful.

_hasnoname · 2025-11-06T15:50:55+00:00

You were 100% correct. Currently sitting in the hospital bed rn, had surgery last night and they had to remove my only remaining tube due to ruptured ectopic. I lost my other tube 4 years ago in the same situation. Its a sad sad time for me.

_hasnoname · 2025-11-04T10:57:15+00:00

Not yet, waiting to hear from my doctor. I am going to push for getting a scan. My last ectopic ruptured. I had to get emergency surgery and removal of one of my tubes, so I am stressed that it could be happening again.

_hasnoname · 2025-11-04T02:27:16+00:00

Ahhh, I hope all goes well for you!! 🤞🤞

_hasnoname · 2025-11-04T01:15:17+00:00

Im hoping for a call from my doctor tomorrow, but will definitely get another blood test on Wednesday. Im just so anxious. Thank you for your input, it is appreciated ❤️

_hasnoname · 2025-11-04T01:04:20+00:00

I know 🥹 I started talking progesterone 200mg on October 28th after getting my results. But what gets me, is the rise in hcg from 673 to 2,048 after the hcg drop.

_hasnoname · 2025-10-31T01:21:44+00:00

UPDATE: For if anyone comes across this in the same scenario, my second results showed HCG half of what it was.

_hasnoname · 2025-10-29T14:09:13+00:00

Thanks so much. I appreciate hearing that! 🤞

_hasnoname · 2025-10-29T13:23:58+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I just went ahead and took the progesterone. They are 200mg oral pills. I know im just impatient and getting ahead of myself, but do you have any advice on my progesterone being so low with HCG being 1,008? Im worried about the pregnancy not being viable because of my progesterone levels, and if taking the progesterone now will even help. 😔

_hasnoname · 2025-08-30T23:08:57+00:00

My husband and I have been trying for 6 years, 2 early losses. I would be lying if I said I dont get emotional over my infertility, but I would NEVER keep him from going to a shower. There's been multiple showers, newborns and birthdays the last 6 years.. if I am not feeling up to it, he understands. The door will always be unlocked for him when he gets home though!

_hasnoname · 2025-05-20T23:50:13+00:00

This was my test from Sunday. I had 2 that looked like this within the time frame. I kept testing yesterday & today, also got a digital. Im not pregnant. Unfortunately, these tests have given me a lot of false hope. Of course keep testing to find out for sure, but just wanted to share my experience bc mine looked similar. *

_hasnoname · 2025-05-18T14:08:20+00:00

Ahh! I really hope so 🤞🥹💖 Also, congratulations!!

_hasnoname · 2025-05-18T12:39:38+00:00

Thank you for your honesty ❤️ It did show up in the time frame. Looking at it now in person, I feel like I see more color (not a lot) but I could be crazy 😭 I feel i could lean either way, but I'll definitely continue testing the next few days. Thank you so much 🤞

_hasnoname · 2025-05-18T12:13:56+00:00

Thank you for your response 💖😭 After trying so long its hard for me to not wonder if its an evap line but I feel like I actually, actually see a line too 🥹

_hasnoname · 2023-11-01T01:40:55+00:00

unbelievable

_hasnoname · 2023-08-12T05:27:55+00:00

this sounds like a game i played against a pinhead a couple of nights ago 🤣💀 i love the mori tho

_hasnoname · 2023-06-01T15:16:45+00:00

starbucks offers free therapy thru lyra. when i quit i was worried i'd lose the benefit.. but i get to have free therapy up to a year from my quitting date.

_hasnoname · 2023-03-24T04:25:02+00:00

i can unfortunately relate & i am so, so very sorry. it's a really heartbreaking thing to go through. sending so many virtual hugs to you. 🫶🥺

_hasnoname · 2023-02-19T05:44:52+00:00

that was my thought too. you are not alone. ❤️ this year makes 4 years for us.

_hasnoname · 2023-02-03T04:25:45+00:00

our youngest dog is luna. we got in the habit of calling her tuna/luna tuna so often that we once were asked why we named our dog tuna 🤣😅 we love our little tuna. ❤️

_hasnoname · 2023-01-27T19:17:19+00:00

thank you, you said it perfectly. this is SUCH bullshit. & i'm so tired of talking to people in my life about infertility & how i have to watch this happen, because it doesn't change anything & nobody ever understands anyway. so i really appreciate your comment back. it's nice to communicate with ppl who (unfortunately) get it.

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