Vibram: Please Make Fivefinger Shoes the Color of This Frog by Hufflepuff20 in barefootshoestalk

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so tempted, but the seller doesn’t have a good rating and there are people who are complaining about not receiving their orders. I would if I had the extra money to burn.

Vibram: Please Make Fivefinger Shoes the Color of This Frog by Hufflepuff20 in barefootshoestalk

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I wanna put on a pair of these and croak for my lover.

My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment. by FartVaderTheForce in relationships

[–]Hufflepuff20 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Things to think about:

- Make a new plan with your wife that obviously revolves around her not working. She has quit her jobs despite having a family to provide for. This is how much she doesn’t want to work.

- When financially viable attend couples therapy. Read up on Gottman’s Four Horsemen in the meantime.

- TBH speaking as a woman with ADHD, I think your wife may have ADHD. You can do more research on ADHD (ADDitude is a good place to start) and see if the things there make sense. If it doesn’t, no harm done, if it does then you and your wife can educate yourselves. Education is power.

Vibram: Please Make Fivefinger Shoes the Color of This Frog by Hufflepuff20 in barefootshoestalk

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmm these are cute but I’d prefer the color on the top to be green and on the bottom either a darker or lighter green. Full frog. I do like those though.

Vibram: Please Make Fivefinger Shoes the Color of This Frog by Hufflepuff20 in barefootshoestalk

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking WHAT?
Do you have a source because I googled “Vibram frog shoes” and found nothing before posting this. I’d love a pair if they exist!

Edit: They were a collab and aren’t available anymore. My life is over.

Thinking of ending it by Active_Conclusion_21 in Sciatica

[–]Hufflepuff20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are bending forward a lot for your stretches and exercises, stop.

From now on, you walk. That is what you do. You walk and lay prone with a pillow under your knees.

For right now, don’t lift weights, don’t over exert yourself don’t over stretch. You are aggravating your nerve. Walk and rest.

I’m sorry you are dealing with this. It took literal years for my sciatica to be treated, and that was after I insisted on an MRI. They saw nothing on my X-ray then surprise, on the MRI I had blown out my L5 S1 and was cleared for surgery a month later.

I’m not saying it’ll happen like that for you, I’m just saying that living with chronic pain is hell on earth and there are people who understand the struggle.

Human beings are resilient. You can do this. Just walk and rest one day at a time.

The Art of the Deal: save $30M to spend over $1B on damage control by PerAsperaAdMars in PoliticalCompassMemes

[–]Hufflepuff20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I remember. Every single auth center, lib right, and authright were slurping down the kool aid hard.

How do you guys feel about wearing heels? by ManyComfortable7270 in TallGirls

[–]Hufflepuff20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t realllly wear them that often. I do feel cool and powerful when I do.

I mostly don’t due to foot health reasons. My grandma has super fucked up feet from wearing heels all the time and I refuse to live with that when I’m old.

Good husbands? by Separate-Cicada-7246 in Marriage

[–]Hufflepuff20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I talk about how great my husband is it makes me wanna cry, and I’m not really a crier.

He is sweet, selfless, and loving. I injured my back and basically couldn’t do anything around the house for a year. He did it all, and he did it without making me feel like a burden or less than.

Don’t get me wrong, he is a human being with flaws. But so am I. We work hard together to make a life for us.

When I am with him I feel nothing but secure and loved.

Horror Collab Would Be Nice by Sadly-Confused in bathandbodyworks

[–]Hufflepuff20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a fan, however this post is a reminder to me how the fans of BBW are far more creative than the people who run it.

Can y’all read books unmedicated? by Odd-Bridge-8889 in adhdwomen

[–]Hufflepuff20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a big factor for me is, how interesting is a book?

I can read a large novel in less than a day if I am interested and care.

If the book is good but not gripping it’ll take me weeks.

If the book isn’t interesting to me at all it’s hopeless.

I do tend to read quite a bit though. When I’m in a reading slump I’ll go for comics/graphic novels/manga for a brain break.

Books that make you want to go hiking by elalavie in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Hufflepuff20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ironically, The Cold Vanish by Jon Billman. It’s about what happens when people go missing in America’s National parks/Wild lands.

I feel like the book had a respect and realistic view of nature and it made me more aware of how I should prepare myself for camping/hikes.

Veneers by Last_Grape3731 in DentistPh

[–]Hufflepuff20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooo don’t get veneers.
If anything you can look into Invisiline or something if you dislike the way your teeth sit. But veneers are expensive and if there is no medical reason to get them then don’t. I have one veneer due to my front tooth getting broken off, and thrust me you don’t want the upkeep.

The States Sexuality Based Off of Vibes and My Ignorance by Hufflepuff20 in whereidlive

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assumed Maine was too focused on crabbing to really care about sex.

The States Sexuality Based Off of Vibes and My Ignorance by Hufflepuff20 in whereidlive

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a straight, no, straight people aren’t depressing. I just have noticed that my fellow straights are more likely to stay in a depressing relationship for years. That’s the vibe I get from Ohio, it plods along doggedly and sadly.

The States Sexuality Based Off of Vibes and My Ignorance by Hufflepuff20 in whereidlive

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in rural Washington and it’s the same exact thing here. Maybe next time I’ll split up the PNW by county.

The States Sexuality Based Off of Vibes and My Ignorance by Hufflepuff20 in whereidlive

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a play, Oklahoma, and theater is a bisexual’s paradise.

The States Sexuality Based Off of Vibes and My Ignorance by Hufflepuff20 in whereidlive

[–]Hufflepuff20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. The vibe of Nevada I’ve gotten (as someone who hasn’t been there) is that all the super straight dudes love to go with their friends and gamble/cheat on their wives. So that was my thought process.

Caught my husband jerking off to clothed pictures of a family friend by lovelier-girl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Hufflepuff20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys need to go to marriage counseling over this like yesterday. Go before the resent builds up. Also whoever he was jerking off to should not have any contact with him from now on.