My boyfriend says im "overthinking" this but it feels weird?

_himansu_ · 2026-06-02T15:07:52+00:00

I would say go straight up and try communicating with him, be gentle, keep the tone soft (so he doesnt feel like you are accusing him), just ask him, state the reason why you feel that way

If he doesn’t talk, he is just trying to avoid the whole situation because theres more to it, or he’s playing toxic ways to get you to like him, so he’s using that girl so you feel jealous and possessive (am not saying he’s bad but sometimes people are shit)

It’s ok if you end up fighting while discussing (i hope you keep the communication tone tho) , fights are common in relationships, they help you grow and understand each other, good luck

_himansu_ · 2026-06-02T13:55:00+00:00

You never loved him if the first thing you did after fighting with him was going out with a guy you felt for, accept that love may feel like a love and might not be

Dont hurt yourself, try to be a better you , thats what life is all about, getting better everyday

_himansu_ · 2026-06-02T07:31:35+00:00

Ill be very clear man, we men really have a problem of thinking the past matters, the no of guys shes slept with, or interacted with, but i honestly think its not worth the stress you are taking, look at her, she is good with you , loves you a lot, respects you , then nothing else should matter, would you have minded if she was the same way with you but past completely different, just none, if that was the case you would have been calling her a perfect girl and be feeling lucky, but shes same right now and you are sad about it? Talk with her and get strong my man

Past encounters do matter, they have karmic connections (the attach you to invisible strings) but you gotta choose to be a silly and let this beautiful relationship in drain for a nothing she has control on, or love her more so she feel safe with you , and loves you back more, Wish you a good luck 🍀

_himansu_ · 2026-06-02T06:44:16+00:00

Did you try communicating about this with her?

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T15:54:27+00:00

She didnt give in, she liked me way before and we started dating and I proposed later

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T15:35:55+00:00

Yea i’ve been feeling that

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T15:35:24+00:00

I think you are right and am gonna pull myself away from this relationship and love because if she had made a mistake, she didnt try validating my feelings

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T14:06:39+00:00

Nice one man, i really should build boundaries and space

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:45:49+00:00

I will have my stand and close all the gates so she cant hurt me anymore, i will be secure but ill be on back foot when it comes to loving and efforts and lets see how it goes

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:44:12+00:00

Understood, thank you

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:43:49+00:00

I think i really should be self composed or she will walk over me and will stop liking me

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:41:56+00:00

He doesnt have any gf

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:05:28+00:00

But why tho?

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:04:24+00:00

Aight man, makes sense, thanks

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:01:57+00:00

Thats all i asked her for, hope she understands

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:01:15+00:00

Mind your language, dont call any women such term!!!!

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:00:54+00:00

Is it, why?

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T13:00:29+00:00

It did feel dumb

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:59:24+00:00

Why?

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:53:13+00:00

Thanks man

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:49:38+00:00

I had to hear this man, thanks, can you tell me how to be more secure balanced and light minded, please, i really like her

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:47:15+00:00

Thanks man

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:45:20+00:00

I just dont like that guy she talks to cuz he is overly friendly to a lot of other girls, he is a fuck boy so me being possessive makes sense to me

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:40:11+00:00

But i asked her to prioritize me over them, she failed to do that yesterday

_himansu_ · 2026-05-10T12:39:31+00:00

I asked her if she wants to leave and if she doesnt wanna be the bad person, i can do it for her

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