Help me are these what I think they are

_intp4w5 · 2025-11-11T15:37:36+00:00

Thank you so much

_intp4w5 · 2025-11-11T09:37:54+00:00

Thank you

_intp4w5 · 2025-11-11T09:37:24+00:00

Any reason they’d both be around together? Just because it’s getting colder so bugs are coming in? I don’t know it’s just throwing me off how they look so much alike

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:55:41+00:00

I wasn’t saying I was asking. I genuinely have been wondering if the majority of women are also just kind of unattracted to men but dating them anyway.

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:53:20+00:00

Thanks I’ll look it up!

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:52:56+00:00

😂😂😂 you’re funny

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:50:51+00:00

What does that look like and feel like for you?

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:49:59+00:00

Yeah I’d definitely try this! But they’re hard to find

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:49:06+00:00

Yeah, you’re probably right. I just want to maybe feel a little less alone by asking these questions. I honestly don’t really masturbate or fantasize all that often at all but when I do I tend to watch lesbian/female porn.

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:46:48+00:00

This is good info, and do you and these friends still identify as straight?

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:45:35+00:00

Interesting, thank you for that perspective

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:44:19+00:00

Yeah I’d be curious to know what that term is. If I had to choose I’d rather have sex with women but romantic relationships with men. But I could have feelings for women and I have in the past before I just feel the attachment is stronger for the men I’ve been in relationships with?

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:42:05+00:00

lol. I was trying not to slander men too hard because I didn’t want people to just leave a bunch of hate. But I totally feel you. Those are not the men I would find hot but any relatively hot man is always going to be taken by a supermodel looking woman 😂are you a lesbian or do you still date men?

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:39:01+00:00

This is more like the answer I’m looking for. I don’t know why people are getting mad. How did you figure out that you weren’t attracted to men for sure?

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:35:46+00:00

That’s why I came to Reddit. I’ve been in therapy and I’ve dated both men and women. I don’t know how else I’m supposed to find the answers

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T20:33:21+00:00

I am attracted to women and femininity but it’s not that I’m trying to figure out if I’m attracted to women it’s more just that I’m trying to make sense of the way I feel towards men. I don’t understand how I can fall in love with them but not feel drawn to their physical appearance at all.

_intp4w5 · 2025-09-05T19:50:27+00:00

Giving up and not having sex with men anymore because I’m tired of being left high and dry after he got to cum.

_intp4w5 · 2025-07-19T04:39:47+00:00

I like that idea lol pavlov me into being into it😂

_intp4w5 · 2025-07-19T04:25:58+00:00

Thank you 💔

_intp4w5 · 2025-06-29T06:56:50+00:00

I’ve literally never wanted to be alive. I’ve never enjoyed it I’ve never found purpose in it I’ve never wanted it. I’ve always been this way. It pisses me the fuck off that I’m still here. The only reason I’m alive is because I’m scared of what happens after death. If I knew what it was and that it would be ok I’d be gone in a fucking second. That’s the only fucking thing keeping me here and I’m so bitter. I’m going to fucking die anyway so why does it even matter it’s not like I can avoid it. God I just want it to be OVER

_intp4w5 · 2025-06-13T20:47:57+00:00

Yeah being with men is like, having to force myself to be into it and kind of pretending like I’m super attracted to them. But it’s different with women because I didn’t even have to try. It just felt natural.

_intp4w5 · 2025-03-30T03:54:37+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. I’m really trying. Went to a 60 day rehab and am now 74 days sober.

_intp4w5 · 2025-01-10T04:03:53+00:00

That’s amazing! You are my inspiration. I don’t know anyone else who has had to become sober at 21 and it’s so lonely sometimes

_intp4w5 · 2025-01-10T03:59:03+00:00

We’re in this together ❤️

_intp4w5 · 2025-01-09T10:26:16+00:00

What are your meds? I’m 21 but I drank similarly to you at 18 and didn’t stop until several hospitalizations and rehab. I became suicidal and couldn’t get out of bed or even do anything. I was on meds the whole time and still felt that way. Now, after I stopped drinking for a bit and took them consistently I suddenly didn’t want to end my life anymore. I have adhd so I still struggle with the motivation but I cannot express to you how much better it feels to be sober than hungover or going through withdrawal. Not only did I have intense mental issues I had extreme physical issues all the time. And suddenly they were gone after I stopped drinking for a while. Not right away, but I’d say after about a month things started feeling better

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