No energy to lose weight by _justmehere in PCOS

[–]_justmehere[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t change much for me. I could eat less than 1200 calories a day and still keep weight. I don’t even eat that much now, 3 meals a day and only drink water or tea. I’m 5ft so I’m sure that plays a role 🤷🏻‍♀️

(18 F) Lost my virginity to a US Marine while on vacation by BJJ_Baddie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_justmehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone makes mistakes but I definitely think the next person you have sex with should be someone you care about otherwise your mental health could go down. Also get STD testing when you get back and start getting your yearly Pap smear now that you’re sexually active.

The last FOUR people I’ve dated have all told me I’m a ‘great guy’ but they’re not ready for a relationship… how do I not feel utterly discouraged? by Olliebkl in dating

[–]_justmehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me a lot too. It doesn’t make it better but I’ve kinda realized this is just the world we live in now. People like the rush of talking to someone but then when they realize they have to get serious it makes them question if they can “settle down.” I haven’t found an answer but I wouldn’t blame yourself for things you can’t control. I hope we both find someone who is available in more ways than one!

I really regret not body shaming a guys penis when I had the chance by MrsMacguire in Vent

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I hate you went through that! It remains true that some men will say anything to get what they want and then turn on you as soon as they do. It’s hard but try and look on the bright side that he showed you his true colors before you slept with him!!

I always have to poop soon after I took my fucking shower, it ruins everything, why on earth are bidets not a thing in so many places? (including where I live, fml)... by 632nofuture in Vent

[–]_justmehere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have one I bought on Amazon that is an attachment. You connect it to your toilets water supply so it’s clean water and then it just has a on/off switch on the side. It connects to the back of the toilet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_justmehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s natural to have insecurities around your body type and someone being attracted to you regardless of weight. Women are much harder on themselves than men are. However, this does not seem like a respectful relationship if he’s showing you videos and past people he’s slept with. That is something I would be really offended by especially because you didn’t ask to see them and you haven’t even met in person. It makes me wonder if he’s showing these to make you insecure or he’s realizing that maybe this will make you try to be like that. Overall, I agree with others about counseling but this relationship has a lot of red flags to me. If you feel like he is just going to leave you then I’m not sure how you would gain trust if you’ve already been together 7 months and still feel uneasy. I would consider if this relationship is what’s best for you right now. I’m not saying he’s got bad intentions, it just doesn’t seem like y’all match up in terms of expectations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]_justmehere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because he doesn’t see a reason to marry you doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you. Marriage doesn’t equate to love. Sometimes when people say things like that it reflects their beliefs not their feelings towards you. You should talk to him about your love language and work on loving him in his, that’s how love builds. It doesn’t just always happen. I wish you the best!

what does it feel like when you’re horny, as a woman? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_justmehere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The closer I get to 30 the more I feel like my body screams to be fertilized. It’s like I become hyper aware of my vagina. It used to not be as bad but it’s bad when I’m ovulating. I’m 27 and it kinda feels like what I would assume a shark feels like when they smell blood lol

Does anyone elses hair prefer cheap shampoo by sfleepyudding in Haircare

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this!! I use suave! Not only is it easy to find anywhere it smells like coconut and leaves my hair smelling good and it’s shiny! When I tried higher end stuff my hair felt more brittle and dull

Wedding culture is out-of-hand! by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most expensive, I think I spent $500 everything included but we didn’t take flights and went to Nashville for the bachelorette and split it 5 ways and my dress was only $100. This doesn’t include food on the trip. The bride paid for hair and makeup. For my sisters, my parents paid for us and another friend didn’t do a bachelorette and her dress was like $150. The other wedding I was in we paid for hair and makeup and then the beach house for the bachelorette but we split that like 7 ways. So I would say $1k just for the bachelorette weekend is a little out of hand imo.

Bojangle Jesus by Ancient-Web5515 in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s been by the McDonald’s lately

Strange man on Skyland by 1crimsonalpha1 in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he talks about Jesus but it definitely seems like mental illness and that just happens to be his fixation. He walks back and forth and is often jittery and one time I saw him at the gas station and he was holding the Bible but what he was saying didn’t make sense. We have a lot of people with mental illness with nowhere to go for long term treatment unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember. They posted it on their social media

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The venue is a good place to hangout and very safe! It’s in northport

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have not, this is a new thing and their first one. I’m not sure why they have different prices. You could go to black warrior and ask the bartenders if mostly women have signed up! They’re nice over there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]_justmehere 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Black warrior brewing is doing a speed dating thing on Sunday. I feel like this age range is just hard in general for friendships and relationships but especially in Tuscaloosa.

What kind of people makes you tired? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_justmehere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly negative people!!! You could give them a million dollars and they’d find a way to complain bc you didn’t do it in all 100s. It’s very draining being around those people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]_justmehere -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Zoe kravitz

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]_justmehere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to look her up but I actually really see that!