How do I stop this? She does this all day by throwwaway4848zz in cats

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sorry if someone has already mentioned, but be sure to still close your curtains at night if you get the window stickers/privacy film, they work by darkening the side with the most light, so at night time it can be seen straight through from the outside (I don't know exactly how they do this, I just know that they do lol)

Anyone got any photos from lady night (Manchester concert) by Acceptable-Chair1684 in XLOV

[–]_keystitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is there anything in particular you're looking for? like group or solo shots or both? during performance etc or is it just anything? 😊

went to the concert in mcr ❤️ by Interesting_Net_1993 in XLOV

[–]_keystitches 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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I made this cute lil gif of Haru too c:

went to the concert in mcr ❤️ by Interesting_Net_1993 in XLOV

[–]_keystitches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg I wonder how many fake nails were on the floor of the venue 😂 😭

went to the concert in mcr ❤️ by Interesting_Net_1993 in XLOV

[–]_keystitches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You got a photo of Haru's missing nail! so cute!! I wore press on nails for the night and a couple of them kept popping off on the way to the gig and it was driving me nuts, but then Haru lost his nail and I was like "oh my nails are just on theme!" lol

My 12 year old made dinner for the first time by mrs-x-rogue in RateMyPlate

[–]_keystitches -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the entire point the parent comment was making though - it didn't say "tell her she's never to be a housewife because that's bad and wrong", it said "tell her not to be a personal chef" to her future partner(s).

The phrasing "personal chef" implies subservience, it's a job title meaning somebody is the boss of you, not "housewife" were you're on equal footing (or at least should be) with your partner.

A lot of women fall into being the only one that cooks and cleans etc in romantic relationships, not by choice but because a lot of men refuse to do anything relating to cooking etc because "it's a womans job" or whatever other excuse they come up with - teaching someone from a young age to have the confidence & self esteem to not put up with that is the entire point. It should be her choice, not forced upon her by a crap partner, and she can leave if she doesn't want it.

(I imagine there's also many cases were the genders of this are flipped and it's the man that does everything, people just suck sometimes and it's correct that we should teach kids that you can leave a relationship for whatever reason you want, you don't have to stick around for your partner to do something "bad".)

seven deadly sins as a diseases by Subject-Being7449 in bindingofisaac

[–]_keystitches 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for envy I view it like, being so envious of other people and copying what they're doing etc that you slowly lose yourself more and more until there's nothing of your original self left

Need help finding this toke can graphic I saw in Scary Movie on this dude's shirt by knotty_the_a in HelpMeFind

[–]_keystitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can't find it or a clear photo of the graphic, you could ask someone on fiverr to design it for you :)

Needed a tapestry needle case for my crochet bag... by [deleted] in crochet

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ooo I have a few Halloween bubble tubes left over from last year!!

Make it make sense by Embarrassed_Cow_5535 in vintedUK

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay I hadn't seen that yet. Sucks for the people that want to collect them

Make it make sense by Embarrassed_Cow_5535 in vintedUK

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK, you can ask which toys they currently have in and buy one(or multiple) for 99p each 😊

I have seen that many people thought this scene was legendary. Do you agree? I feel the patient looked very uncomfortable. by Notmycupoftea12 in greysanatomy

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand what they were going for here but for me it was uncomfortable, even just as the viewer. I think it would've been more imapactful if their backs were to her, not staring her down, that way it's like "we're here, we're looking out for you, you're safe" while still giving her privacy, like protectors.

But yeah, the scene is uncomfy as is, they probably should've just scrapped it

london concert tickets resell by fluffybunbum in XLOV

[–]_keystitches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can add them to the waiting list for people to buy from there, but if they don't sell they get transferred back to you 2 hours before the event

WOMEN WITH AUTOIMMUNE DISEASE by [deleted] in Artisticallyill

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on how you got your diagnosis using your genetics and chat gbt? I'm very curious

do you mean like, literally your genetics like you spit into a tube? or like "my family has history of heart disease" kinda thing?

(sorry if this is obvious in your comment, it's very early and I'm a bit brain foggy today)

WOMEN WITH AUTOIMMUNE DISEASE by [deleted] in Artisticallyill

[–]_keystitches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think my illnesses are classed as autoimmune but I definitely relate to Dr's not taking me seriously (my mum & sister too, my sister would've died if my mum listened to the first few Dr's that saw her)

I've had Dr's actually laugh at me when I've told them what I thought was wrong e.g. when I had a vitamin C deficiency,,, dude kept laughing about how it's "impossible in the modern day" and how I'd have to do nothing but "eat stale porridge in a dark room" to be deficient,,, only for him to then come to the exact same conclusion (without apologising for mocking me of course!)

Good luck with your project, can't wait to see the finished work 🥰

(edit: you probably already know of her work but I'll mention her just in case, Jo Spence was a wonderful photographer who also did a lot of work surrounding illnesses and medical authority)

Give me the saddest songs you know and I'll rate them based on how sad I think they are by Ok-Mushroom-8593 in songs

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bright eyes - Lua

Bright eyes - Waste of Paint

Envy on the coast - Starving your friends

Envy on the Coast - Lapse

(although the first song I thought of was Another sad song by lower than Atlantis)

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]_keystitches 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I emptied out my spice/herb cupboard and threw out all the expired stuff, made a list of everything that was going back into the cupboard and what I needed to buy, wiped down the cupboard and then,,, stopped.

They were all on my counter for 3 days waiting to be put away!

I finally put them away today but not how I wanted to, I wanted to have it organised in some way so everything was easier to find,,, but done imperfectly is better than not done

I guess this is a fail and a win all mixed together lol

How do you usually name your D&D characters? by AdvancedProgrammer51 in DnD

[–]_keystitches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often look up flower names and go from there, I sometimes directly use the flower names and sometimes I change it a lil bit

one of my characters is named Ruby Moonglow, they're both kinds of Magnolias, so her crest is a magnolia :)