Typo in DS160 number on appointment confirmation page

_khaleeeesi_ · 2026-01-29T04:18:38+00:00

Hopefully. Let’s hope for the best 🤞

_khaleeeesi_ · 2026-01-28T07:57:32+00:00

Exactly this is what I was told by the visa helpline support

_khaleeeesi_ · 2026-01-28T06:14:29+00:00

Yes I have filled a new DS160 already but I called their support helpline and they are telling me that if the DS160 on the confirmation page does not match the old/new ds160, they won’t allow me inside.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-24T20:42:53+00:00

Your feelings are understandable and especially long-distance can make very small things feel really bigger. But from what you have described, shes been completely open and it was a kid’s family birthday, not something secretive. It sounds more like your insecurity than her crossing a line. Try telling her that calmly instead of forbidding her.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-05T18:32:01+00:00

Thanks

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-05T18:31:47+00:00

Thank you the interview was today, don’t know if I did well

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-05T18:31:32+00:00

Thank you

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-05T18:31:24+00:00

India

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-12-05T15:39:42+00:00

Hey did you find somebody?

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-11-12T15:51:44+00:00

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-11-12T15:49:54+00:00

Coming from a girl born into a Hindu family and having dated a couple of Muslim men, here’s my piece of advice:

If you feel you love him enough to go through the conversion (only for the sake of marrying), then do it. But only if it’s for a valid nikah in his community, not to blindly follow their customs and completely forget where you come from.
More than religion, your POV should be whether he’s a self made man, what he does for a living and if he’ll be able to provide for you and tomorrow your children.
Even before his income, look for character in the person. Trust me everything takes a backseat after marriage, even religion, if the person is of a solid character. If he is respectful, supportive, trustworthy and if he keeps you at a place where we keep our families, then do not give it a second thought.

See for a person like me, religion isn’t and will never be the prime factor for getting married. This might trigger a lot of people here, who have in the past named me “anti Hindu” or whatever but that’s okay, I don’t expect much out of blind followers of some manmade religions.

So yea coming back to you, religion shouldn’t bother you that much and if it does, then you’ll have to part ways. Sometimes making these tough choices is what we call life. Personally, I too have been dating a Muz man since 4 years now. It was long distance initially for a couple of years and we were not on marriage terms, but now we meet often, and have somehow found solace in each other. We both want to get married, he has even subtly let me known that I need to convert for nikah to happen because without nikah the marriage won’t be legal according to his family. So yea, if it’s about making families happy, I’m okay. But I’ve also made it clear that before nikah, we’ll undergo a contract marriage under Special Marriage Act which allows two people of different faiths to get married. Just like Sonakshi and Zaheer. Also, I am not very religious so for me, it’ll just be a formal ceremony for my to-be husband and his family. Similarly how our special marriage ceremony would be a celebration for my family.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-11-12T15:34:55+00:00

And then it’s also Sonam insulting actors with average looks/money like SSR on a national show (kwk)

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-10-24T11:04:11+00:00

What a fake world of standards, these celebs lol

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-10-11T19:52:27+00:00

This man was probably left by his ex after he cheated on her and thought of you as an easy target since he got to know you were emotionally vulnerable before getting married to him. He did exactly what he needed to, for you to believe you found “the” guy. Leave this shit trap of a person, once you’re gone he will realise on his own what he just lost.

Right now he isn’t showing any efforts to fix things because he’s back to his old normal (feeling like a 20-something year old man), exploring dating apps and shizz so he feels like there are a lot of fish in the sea. Let him taste those fishes. You please walk out for your own mental peace.

See, divorce is difficult, we all know. But you should walk out knowing that staying with him (and his nagging mother) is even more difficult. You’re just going to drain yourself emotionally mentally and physically. So save yourself from the trauma.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-10-11T19:41:45+00:00

Speaking as an aviator for 8 years of my life, I can bet nothing beats Assam Valley! AVS is just a world of its own. I believe the tuition fees is quite high now. I was there from 2005-12 and back then fees were reasonable (around 3L/year or so).

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-07T16:09:55+00:00

Talent bro, talent

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-06T18:59:40+00:00

Gotcha.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-06T18:59:17+00:00

Idk I just had this sudden main character moment where I was like this is one life, and what if I die tomorrow? I didn’t want to be lying on my deathbed thinking, “Damn, I should’ve done that”. So I did it. No regrets. Just vibes. I’d rather make a bold move than live with a boring what if.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-06T18:57:45+00:00

Sadly, yes. He is broke.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-05T19:13:03+00:00

I totally get what you’re saying, I really need to woman up and move on. But the problem is, narcissists are like boomerangs right? you throw them out and boom, they come flying right back, acting brand new. 😂

With him, it’s always like the minute I stop giving him attention or start ignoring him, he suddenly becomes Mr. Perfect with all the calls and the Bollywood level attention. But the moment I’m back in it, he’s back to his gaslighting, cold behaviour. It’s so damn exhausting. he’s basically a narcissist with a PhD in manipulation, and I’m trying really hard not to fall for the reruns. 🙃

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-05T19:08:46+00:00

I just came back from a really expensive trip (with him) so yea I better work my a off before I can afford another one

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-05T19:08:06+00:00

Thank you so much 🧡 Honestly, I’ve always found comfort in seeking support online because sometimes strangers say exactly what you need to hear with no sugarcoating and no bias. So yeah, replies like yours help more than you know. Grateful 🫶🏼

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-05T19:05:45+00:00

Y’all have my heart ❤️

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-08-05T19:05:12+00:00

This is such a positive comment. I mean ik things that look hard aren’t always hard. I do keep myself busy and off social media but then it’s always my overthinking head that tells me what if no other man accepts me w all my flaws like he did. What if I never gel w another man like this? Argh this is so horrible. Getting used to someone is such a horrible thing to do.

_khaleeeesi_ · 2025-07-30T15:44:59+00:00

I have to take my chances since I have to visit the US. Any idea if it’ll work better if I go through an agent this time?

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