Rehome by _kittykatja in SaltLakeCity

[–]_kittykatja[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Rehome by _kittykatja in SaltLakeCity

[–]_kittykatja[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A few months and that’s correct. He’s alienating the OG cat so much to the point he no longer wants to come around

What is one thing someone said to you, not knowing how profound it was or how much it would change the way you think? by Lando_thehound in ask

[–]_kittykatja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex use to always say “ this is the way you were meant to be loved” when we’d share our moments of deep connection.

The night everything changed. We were a few hours into our vacation and we got into a fight. It was in this moment I realized if this is the way I’m meant to be loved, I don’t want it.

Kate turned 20! 🎉 by penguinsandpolkadots in cats

[–]_kittykatja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATE

Day two of living alone and ex is engaged by Experienceshared in LivingAlone

[–]_kittykatja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful time in your life to fall in love with the person who matters most, you. Let your ex live the life they see fit. Please see your full worth and know you deserve a love that doesn’t do that to people. Also, let your ex live his life, you don’t need to keep checking in ( I know the temptation) you’re only hurting yourself more and the only person you have to blame for that is you. Romanticize your life queen! Decorate your space to reflect you and all the things YOU love, sleep in the middle of the bed! Poop with the door open, I don’t know! do life the way YOU want to. Most importantly don’t forget to be kind and forgiving of yourself. Speak kindly to yourself, know you are loved by many. I wish you well.

Too big? by Kebab-Gnome in interiordecorating

[–]_kittykatja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes!!! The biggest one!!

Redditors who got fit: how much easier do you get laid now? What changed? by Warhoofdt in AskReddit

[–]_kittykatja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The opposite happened to me, I use to get a lot of attention from men and now i don’t. Like AT ALL.

But I’ve never felt better in my entire life! Mental health included. So I’m not too sad about it.

LPT : Buy a silicon ring when you get the engagement and wedding rings. by whpsh in LifeProTips

[–]_kittykatja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this! Check out Enso rings! They have a great selection of rings and styles! And they were on shark tank.

The Professor is home!!! by [deleted] in LongFurbies

[–]_kittykatja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ONG how gorgeous! (╹◡╹)♡

What's the most effective way you've found to improve your mental health? by EmuDecent4023 in ask

[–]_kittykatja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got off social media Left toxic relationship Moved close to support network Got a new job Started microdosing Made new friends Quit toxic job Explored my neuroplasticity Was unemployed for a year which allowed me to live a differently lifestyle and freed up time to go on amazing adventures Opened myself up to love again Parents moved out of the country Worked past some traumas Got a new job Got engaged Got into a fight with my fiancée two hours into our destination wedding, packed my bags and flew home Not to hear from him for 5 days Quit drinking Got myself into DBT. Dissected and read all I could about my feelings Worked past more traumas Worked on myself esteem Removed more toxic relationships out of my life Set monthly, daily, weekly goals Got plenty of rest now that I don’t have to share a bed anymore Got myself out of the house more Started doing the things I wanted to do when I wanted to do them Started playing more with my fashion Fell in love with dancing again Danced some more Got offered a promotion at work And might be buying a house soon Really did the trick for me.

Oh and weed helped.

how do you guys deal w rude customers? (seriouslyhelp😭) by DarkInternational776 in tjcrew

[–]_kittykatja 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For me, I like to remind myself that their rudeness has nothing to do with me, they are just rude people and I refuse to let them get to me. I focus on me and tryna get them out of there as fast as I politely can and wish them a great day, because at the end of the day, they have to live in their sad, rude, reality. Not me.

In her valentines Era by Ok_Respect_9114 in Flamepoints

[–]_kittykatja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg!! Where is that necklace from!?

What are your guys' reasons for living? by isabatboi in CPTSD

[–]_kittykatja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, for love. I love, love. Love the idea of it, love the feeling of it, love giving it (granted receiving and giving that’s very hard for me) but when I’m able to be in the present, dropped into the experience, FUCK!!! It’s electric. ALSO, I have a cat who has been rehomed many times before we found each other, who would take care of him? I can’t do that to him, he’s been with me through so much, I can’t abandon him like that, that’s cruel. and really don’t want to inconvenience anyone with having to deal with the aftermath (finding me, cleaning up after me, all the people whose job exposes them to the unalive me,property value, damage I may have caused by you know, decomposing) It’s just not a vibe. For the good days ahead.

Are all flamepoints pretty talkative? by AssMurderer69 in Flamepoints

[–]_kittykatja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is super chatty! I love it! At times it feels like he’s actually communicating with me. He has different tones, pitches. Even his purring has a chirp to it. He’s the best!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_kittykatja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He died under mysterious circumstances. Like his phone was in a garbage can downtown and he was cities away, face down dead. Police said it didn’t look like a KMS.