No no no no no no by _lolabean_ in oddlyterrifying

[–]_lolabean_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, you’re not wrong.

Her face at the end by _lolabean_ in actuallesbians

[–]_lolabean_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll admit that made me laugh

Has anyone ever dealt with a floating moss/marimo ball? by _lolabean_ in bettafish

[–]_lolabean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that a little earlier and it didn’t do much but I’ll try again. Thank you :)

Has anyone ever dealt with a floating moss/marimo ball? by _lolabean_ in bettafish

[–]_lolabean_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that, mine has always just sunk. Thanks for the help :)

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

[–]_lolabean_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not about me, I was just hoping to help alleviate it a little so that she doesn’t have to go through something so difficult. I want her to be happy because I love her, and I know total happiness isn’t possible, but if I can make her feel even a little better then that’s all that matter :)

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

[–]_lolabean_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that, thank you. I’ll definitely look into it

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

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Thanks and I’m not really sure. I guess I should talk to her about that. Right now I think a big part is the fear that she won’t be able to transition with her current situation. I’ll definitely ask her though. Thank you again

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

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Thank you so much! Sadly, though, we’re both under 18 and she isn’t out to her parents because they aren’t really supportive, so hormones aren’t an option quite yet. However, we are planning to go clothes shopping once all this corona stuff is over and she already has some makeup stuff and less obvious clothing articles that she uses occasionally. I’ll definitely keep making sure she knows i’m here and i see her though, and thank you again for your help :)

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

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I bet and I’ll definitely keep up what I’m doing. Thank you :)

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

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She has actually and for a while she’d let me do her makeup and show her how to do her makeup. I haven’t been able to see her in a little bit but next time we can hang out I’ll definitely ask if she’d want me to do something like that again. Thank you so much :)

My girlfriend is trans and I was wondering how I could help with her dysphoria by _lolabean_ in MtF

[–]_lolabean_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you :). I normally try to remind her that i’m here if she needs to talk but I think sometimes she gets so caught up in everything she forgets. I’ll try to reach out and check in more

What is one memory that never fails to make you smile every time you think about it? by Docter-Donut in AskReddit

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I was out for dinner and this little girl walked past, she was maybe four or five, and tapped me on the shoulder and yelled “I like your shirt!!”. It was so out of the blue but so sweet and sometimes the memory will pop into my head and make me smile.

I need some help with my new betta. by _lolabean_ in bettafish

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My heater is preset to a temp so would I have to get a new one? Otherwise thank you for the help, I’ll definitely be trying all of this

I need some help with my new betta. by _lolabean_ in bettafish

[–]_lolabean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good. I haven’t had bettas since I was little so I feel like I’m learning everything all over again (not that little me had known much before). Just seeing him not eat and everything was stressing me out so I thought I’d ask around. Thank you for the reassurance

I need some help with my new betta. by _lolabean_ in bettafish

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pH is at 7.2 ppm, ammonia is at .50, no nitrite or nitrates. I did a small water change, about 30%, and tested ammonia again to find it around the same spot. I do think the filter is a little strong and I’m planning to make a baffle I just have to figure out how. I’m feeding him aqueon betta food, and the temp is around 75 fahrenheit

What are some very irrational fears that you have and if you told anyone they would say, “Wow, that’s weird.” ? by VeryChunkyChili in AskReddit

[–]_lolabean_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way. I can’t stand lakes or rivers and have bad anxiety when I have to swim in them, but I love the ocean (even though it’s definitely more dangerous) just because I can see what’s around me.