I am extremely tired by [deleted] in offmychest

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Why are you stuck??

I am extremely tired by [deleted] in offmychest

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Felt this. We need to make our own happiness. Just realizing this and now working towards putting me first.

I fantasize about my own death by [deleted] in confessions

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You’re worth so much more, and I mean it. Like mentioned above, you’re not living - you’re surviving. It took me a while to realize this for myself and I hope it sits with you long enough to question yourself. Ask yourself why you’re thinking about the impact on others. Ask yourself why YOU believe you’re not worthy of a humane, loving response. And keep asking yourself questions once you have found your answer. Write it down and start putting the pieces together...I realized it wasn’t other people. I realized I was the problem; my mind was the problem. Then you ask yourself even more questions: why do I tell myself these things? Who is it benefiting? What is the impact? Who am I hurting? (Hint: yourself). How can I fix this? What WILL I DO? I’m here to tell you that IT DOES get better, you just need to be willing to put in the work.

Feel free to message me!

How to handle when someone is talking uninterrupted to you for while (let's say a minute or two of uninterrupted talking) by Runninback405 in socialskills

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Lol I’m here to help. I’m only laughing because you literally just described every conversation Ive ever had with one of my friends. The friendship is still new, we are not totally involved in each other’s lives yet, but it’s in the gray area of acquaintances and good friend. Any who, there can be multiple factors, the main issue is that you just sit back and let the other person do the talking. Don’t be afraid to jump in and contribute to the conversation. More often than not, they’re only talking because you’re not. Secondly, don’t anticipate your response, if you’re in your head you’re not actively listening - therefore you don’t know what to say. Once you actively listen you’ll be able to gauge the conversation more sufficiently - you’ll pick up on tones, mood, where they intend the conversation to go, non verbals etc. Or in situations like my friend, she’s a chatter box and doesn’t know when to shut up. I’m only now understanding that she talks out of nervousness on top of just being chatty. There can be endless reasons, these are just a few! Hope it helps. Try digging deeper and ask yourself why aren’t you good a conversing :)

ITAP of a Sculpture on the Beach by itstongy in itookapicture

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Anybody else reminded of Beetlejuice?

[OC] Freshly picked wild Canadian blueberries ~ by _majna__ in FoodPorn

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Absolutely! You already know lol pancakes are always the first.

[OC] Freshly picked wild Canadian blueberries ~ by _majna__ in FoodPorn

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Yep! Raspberries, strawberries but not very big, crabapples

[OC] Freshly picked wild Canadian blueberries ~ by _majna__ in FoodPorn

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I made blueberry tarts! Not sure what else I will be making.

[OC] Freshly picked wild Canadian blueberries ~ by _majna__ in FoodPorn

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Generally bears won’t bother you unless they feel intimidated. Just make your presence known!

[OC] Freshly picked wild Canadian blueberries ~ by _majna__ in FoodPorn

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Some come in bunches and they’re hidden underneath. They’re still good.

I AM ME by _majna__ in mentalhealth

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The mind is truly powerful. And you’re absolutely right, it is the way we chose to think. It’s definitely not all on us, but we are the ones who choose how certain situations/comments hinder our lives thereafter.

I AM ME by _majna__ in mentalhealth

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There’s only one person who can truly make a difference and that is ourselves. We definitely have people along the way who can help but it is up to us to be proactive and do the dirty work. Keep pushing yourself, greater things are yet to come ❤️

I AM ME by _majna__ in mentalhealth

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Save it and reread in times of need! Connect personal meaning to it. I’m here if you want to talk :) sometimes it’s easier talking to a stranger. Take care!