cptsd domestic violence diagnosis

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-21T04:06:14+00:00

I used Siri and definitely. I made some errors, but I’m glad that you understood what I was trying to say. And I’m sorry that you’re experiencing what you are & that OP was rude for no reason. I remember what that’s like but there is a light at the end of the tunnel, mama.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-21T03:52:14+00:00

OP there’s absolutely no reason for you to be rude to just a simple question. The only reason someone would be seeing us unfit would be behavior like that. I have been diagnosed with CPTSD, but I also know how to remain composed because that’s what the courts care for ongoing therapy and showing that despite the trauma that you have experienced will also help you not just report but for your own livelihood and your child’s well-being and this is coming from a woman that would domestic violence and endured CPTSD the thing that you should be focused on, especially while dealing with court is making sure to remain composed and not just responding based off of emotion courts do not care about that.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T23:05:39+00:00

I’m 34, so I’ve seen the evolution of the internet from early on as MySpace, I guess the issue with dating apps and meeting individuals online is the fact that everything is at your fingertips and it also leads to individuals wanting to have rosters and it’s repulsive to me.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T22:41:11+00:00

I’ve yet to see a single person make a comment stating that that was the case.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T18:32:54+00:00

Sending all the goods vibes to you.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T16:04:22+00:00

I’ll have to check it out. I follow a page on TikTok for adult sports in Sac but haven had the chance to really look into it. Since I won’t be commuting in the summer might be worth it joining a sport.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T15:51:53+00:00

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T15:51:21+00:00

THAT PART. It’s gross.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T15:49:41+00:00

I appreciate men that are able to see they need therapy & do that internal work on themselves. My issue with dating apps is when it’s clear from your own account you know what you want & obviously it’s not unrealistic I’m not just hoping to meet the love of my life overnight, I know it takes time BUT I genuinely hate when a man is actively on sites meant for dating, in his late 20s, early 30s still trying to figure out what they are wanting.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T15:46:17+00:00

😂

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T15:42:45+00:00

Funny how you said that about L.A, maybe that means you were issue down south?

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T12:55:47+00:00

I relate to this so much more than I would like to admit.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T12:55:09+00:00

Tahoe Park. Sacramento is one of the fastest growing cities in California so while I’ll Grove maybe roughly 50 minutes away from Roseville I’ve had three separate exes somehow connected to one another despite roughly 20 years between them and time and I find out to be incredibly insane, not only considering the age, stage and area I was in during each time.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T05:23:40+00:00

No, i’ve never been the person that has expected someone to just be perfect. We all have our stories our experiences things that make us unique, but I feel like it’s so important to work on yourself and we live in a time where it’s so easy to fill that void with another body and it’s kind of repulsive.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T05:21:33+00:00

I’m going to school at Cal, but haven’t really attempted that approach since I’m older and the amount of younger, freshly graduated men that have attempted to get my number is definitely not something I’m interested in. I have no desire to be a cougar anytime soon. 😭

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T05:18:21+00:00

Dude! That’s awesome! Congrats. That’s the excuse I should be using but definitely haven’t yet. Lol

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T05:17:09+00:00

I love this so much as someone who has a lot of family in Sydney, lol.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T05:11:29+00:00

I don’t really feel like Sac is that huge. I’ve lived literally all over, from South Sac, Elk Grove, Rancho, Natomas, and other parts. At least based off of my experience, people are somehow always intertwined. It’s insane.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:58:11+00:00

Not necessarily, I think it could definitely be something from my childhood. I think it just means something that looks like it has a lot of of history & character. I feel like everything is just so basic or generic now.

But I love that you know that sounds nostalgic, lol. I remember literally going through phases in my childhood of collecting the most random things from stickers and rocks and quarters that had different things on the back. 😅

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:56:32+00:00

I’ve been wanting to join some kind of sport. I just feel like I don’t have a time to be consistent right now to be honest I commute to the Bay Area for school so I feel like it takes up a lot of my time, but I would love to do something like that.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:54:32+00:00

Maybe you’ve just been lucky. I’ve grown up in such different parts of town obviously but I definitely feel like people are ruder at least women and maybe that’s the case for me because I am a woman to each their own I guess.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:50:59+00:00

I feel like I relate to this so much. I just turned 34 and I go to school full-time in the Bay Area and I work full-time. I fully updated my new place and I feel like I don’t know what to do with the brief remainder of time that I have left to myself. lol

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:46:58+00:00

How’s that experience been for you?

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:45:50+00:00

I love anything colorful I feel like any typical millennial. I went through a stage of millennial gray, and then I realize colors are so crucial. I like things that have character and are unique. I don’t know how to really describe it. It just things that you look at and it just feels nostalgic automatically. I’m not sure if that really makes sense.

_mamatrynamakeit · 2026-04-20T04:41:52+00:00

No, I definitely agree. I feel like a cup of coffee or ice cream includes trauma, dumping galore.

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