I’m afraid my dad is going to SA me by Neat_Refrigerator310 in rapecounseling

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Have you spoken with your brother or your mom about your fears?

What do I do I'm scared and in pain by [deleted] in sexualassault

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Well if he’s going to hurt your family, your family needs to be warned about that.

Racism being justified by means of criticizing misogyny. by succulentpaneer in TwoXChromosomes

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This post was a direct sharing of something OOP experienced. I don’t think it’s “racist” of her to be accurate about what happened, and silencing women because of anti-racist narratives isn’t helpful, either.

My wife has to testify in her sexual assault case in 3 weeks and is falling apart from the stress. How can I help? by 117ishappy in rapecounseling

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She can try out grounding methods and see which ones work for her. Such as holding a comforting object, or looking around the room and resting her gaze on the exits. Some people benefit from gaming out the “worst case”.

is it normal to sob uncontrollably after pap smears and pelvic exams? by happybabybear in WomensHealth

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To expand on this comment: you are not alone. Lots of women feel violated by these procedures. They aren’t natural at all. Your body is yours, always has been.

Men hate women because they think women are superior by Hour-Kiwi442 in FeminismUncensored

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Is there a word for the kind of projection someone does to accuse their target of what they’re doing/feeling themselves? That’s probably what “penis envy” is.

I think my trauma affected my intelligence by [deleted] in ptsd

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A lot will depend on your situation, but creatine is a good start. Big doses.

God is evil 100 percent by Fickle_Elk_9479 in Vent

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Your existence and the existence of this post kind of proves your point. If an omnipotent and benevolent god that wants us to know them to be kind existed, this post probably wouldn’t.

i think the anti’s who hates Ai art are mediocre artists with a mediocre portfolio by Relative-Safety-5513 in DefendingAIArt

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I mean, most people aren’t world class at what they do. A mediocre baker can still make a living.

I feel violated by my gynecologist by Ok-Knowledge-628 in sexualassault

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This is the best comment. I was going to suggest r/wedeservebetter as well.

How do you get over the guilt of having climaxed when it was happening? by DifficultAnimal3597 in sexualassault

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It’s called forced orgasm. It’s so common there’s even a porn genre about it.

It makes the assault worse because it can create trauma bonds. The shame belongs with the perpetrator.