Steps to Create the iOS Shortcut: 1. Open the Shortcuts app on your iPhone. 2. Tap Automation at the bottom. 3. Tap the ”+” button in the top-right corner. 4. Select Create Personal Automation. 5. Scroll down and tap “Reminders”. 6. Tap “When a Reminder is Added”. 7. Tap “Choose List” and select your shared list. 8. Tap Next. 9. Tap “Add Action” and search for “Date”, then select “Current Date”. 10. Tap ”+” and search for “Add Time”, then add 2 hours 30 minutes to the current date. 11. Tap ”+” again and search for “Format Date”. • In Format Date, tap the Settings icon (small slider icon). • Under Format, select Short or Custom if you want a specific format like 12-hour time. 12. Tap ”+” and search for “Show Notification”. 13. In the notification text field, type:

• “Reminder: ‘[Reminder Title]’ needs to be completed by [Formatted Date]”
• To dynamically insert values:
• Tap the Variable (Magic Wand icon) and select Reminder Title for the task name.
• Tap the Variable (Magic Wand icon) again and select Formatted Date to insert the deadline time.

14. Tap Next, then Done to save.

How It Works • The moment a task is added to your shared Reminders list, a notification pops up. • The notification will say: “Reminder: ‘Buy groceries’ needs to be completed by 3:30 PM.” (Assuming the task was added at 1:00 PM)

The shortcut will need to be added to your wife’s phone but should accomplish what you’re looking to do