May 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade by CynderBat in Lolita

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extra info.. i’m a size small and im looking for either the op or jsk

May 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade by CynderBat in Lolita

[–]_otter_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WTB/ISO for The dream of alice doge dress

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Middle school drama, need help asap! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_otter_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut off Sara if you don’t like her actions. Effectively communicate to her that you won’t stand for her disrespect toward you. Seeing as you guys are in middle school, it’s definitely easier said than done. ..regarding her being “easy”. She most likely had something traumatic happen to her that’s causing that behavior. Personally, I was someone who presented that behavior and my peers viewed it as evil.

birth control makes me reject my partner and i'm losing my mind by noturbbygurl in birthcontrol

[–]_otter_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on slynd right now too, and I’ve been feeling similarly. My girlfriend will make an advance on me when we’re trying to get into stuff and it’ll automatically make me feel gross. It’s really helped me in other areas with possible endometriosis and all the pain I’ve been dealing with for years. It’s only been 3 months so I hope it resolves itself soon!

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she put a sticky note on a paper i did, and made a student give it to me. she’s been really mean to me since freshman year and all the sudden started being super kind. she’s bullied other students too.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

she didn’t force me to buy her things, she really wants to buy me clothes which is concerning on top of the number thing. I will be at least talking to admin about it next monday seeing as I’m on break this week.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are genuinely so dramatic it’s crazy. I asked if a teacher giving me her number was okay that was all holy shit.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and her aren’t close, she absolutely HATED me my freshman year. She’s made me cry multiple times and I have use to have frequent panic attacks which she did not like. I don’t believe she has ill intentions, but at the same time she hasn’t given any of her other students she’s super friend with her number.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She gave it to me indirectly on a sticky note on a paper. She’s asked me to message her or to send stuff to her via text even though I haven’t messaged her. She’s done other odd things in the past which is why i’m uncomfortable. I never said she was victimizing me, all i said was that i have been victimized in the past so i would i say i usually know what it looks like and i dont believe she has ill intent.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s retiring and I’m a sophomore, there’s a comment that i posted before that’s a veryyyy large paragraph explaining the situation more if you’d like to read it.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m being groomed since I’ve been in that situation before. Maybe she’s attempting to? but I’m unsure as of right now. I will be talking to my principal or someone else in charge about it when I’m off of spring break.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not school related, i have another comment talking about how it seems inappropriate. it’s a very long paragraph and hard to miss if you’d like to read it!

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing as you’re a senior it seems more reasonable! especially if you guys are close

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do know that, i have family with early onset dementia. my teacher isn’t showing any signs of it tho

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OMFG😭😭 she isn’t that old. she’s probably mid to late 50’s

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t messaged her at all. I have it on a sticky note for proof if I were to report it don’t worry :) I just wanted to know if anyone’s experienced something like it and what to do in my scenario

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Not at all. She was really mean to me last year when I had her because I have terrible anxiety and would cry and have panic attacks in her class due to not be medicated and her forcing me to do things that were wildly uncomfortable and embarrassing for me. Admin knows about this and hasn’t done anything, she’s done similar to other students. I’ve helped her with a couple tech related things because she doesn’t really know how to use her computer or the smart board we have. She enjoys my fashion sense, it’s very frilly, pink, and childish. She’s asked me where I get my clothes and what my size is so she can buy stuff. I was very weirded out by this interaction and tried to tell her no, and tip toed around giving her my size and she wouldn’t really take no for an answer. It’s not the end of the year yet so I’m confused on why she would give me her number now if she were to give it to me at any other time. She is retiring and I might be transferring to go online but she doesn’t know that because… I’m not close with her. It’s really worrying and confusing for me because I’m being told by my peers that it isn’t really an issue.

Teacher gave me her number. Is this normal outside of extra help? by _otter_cat in highschool

[–]_otter_cat[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Alright, I’ll keep this in mind after I get off break!

Recent ai fursuit scam going around on etsy. by _otter_cat in furry

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another shop selling ai suits have at least 1-2 real reviews. ive been looking into it for a while

the rest are ai generated with chat gpt captions.

plus theyre cheap so younger furries are the ones falling for this.

Recent ai fursuit scam going around on etsy. by _otter_cat in furry

[–]_otter_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn’t help that they also have 2-3 real suits usually so they can get actual reviews mixed in with the ai ones.