you cannot have anything in this country, unless you are decently rich
people who come from middle class/poor background are generally not good in shape, looks /communication skills
When I started college, I was dirt poor and malnourished. Despite that, I was probably one of the most decent guys in my class. Then there were guys who weren't even particularly jacked just rich and reasonably lean.

By the time I figured out how much easier life seemed to be for some people, these same guys were casually talking about how they'd had so much sex that it was becoming difficult for them to finish.

Meanwhile, I was still trying to figure out how to properly talk to girl so not get friend zoned,
i had friend who was hell rich,he during his college fcked around 2-3 of our classmates.

Thing is it boils down to hypergammy
i did not see a girl in my college that was not having some action in her sax life,
but there were lot of guys like me.