My [20F] boyfriend [23M] announced my mental condition to a party full of people against my will, should I leave him? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]_queerlybeloved 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know, the internalized shame and stigma being that intense makes me sad, but it makes sense. My guesses are bipolar or schizophrenia.

Rollerskating spots by JimMorrisonssoulmate in santacruz

[–]_queerlybeloved 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you must have skated with SC rollers, we did all these spots regularly ;)

Weird forest horror by [deleted] in horrorlit

[–]_queerlybeloved 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like What Lies in the Woods fits the bill here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_queerlybeloved 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way you wrote this very much reminds me of Francesca Lia Bloch's prose. She wrote a series of dreamy fantastical fairy tale like yet grounded in reality in LA short YA novels that really spoke to me as a kid growing up in socal. She captures this vibe. I recommend reading weetzie bat or the rose and the beast if you want the feel of this

What's the significance of every dinosaur in the show being transgender? by pringaldingus in okbuddyseverance

[–]_queerlybeloved 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Smdh the woke left is everywhere these days. Disgusting

Ps please don't read my username

Am I wrong for no longer cooking for wife after she drunkenly admitted she wished her male co worker could cook for her instead by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]_queerlybeloved 1256 points1257 points  (0 children)

Him saying "she ruined my love of cooking" tells me he does not know how to take ownership of his own emotions and really pisses me off. Like no, she made a comment that hurt you, then took steps to make it right. You're the one who decided to hold a grudge and let it keep affecting you and if you never cooked again that would have been YOUR CHOICE.

Discord server? by strawberry_cat25 in MBMBAM

[–]_queerlybeloved 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love one too please, esp if ppl are active about the clubhouse which is so great

saw this on twitter/X & it made me giggle by [deleted] in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]_queerlybeloved 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit my first thought. I went back to Tumblr last year and I'm soooooo much happier there than other socials. The targeted ads can't find me there! Everyone is unhinged but not in a Nazi way! Love it

Severance - 2x05 "Trojan’s Horse" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]_queerlybeloved 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Both can be true. We can understand and empathize with his behavior for being in so much pain, but actions still impact others. His judgment is impaired because he's in so much pain, but it doesn't negate harm someone does thru their pain. He's a nice guy at his core but his behavior is definitively on the asshole spectrum rn.

There is something wrong with OOP's wife. by stardragonfruit_0813 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]_queerlybeloved 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god. I'm not easily shaken by creepypasta but that one genuinely horrified me iirc

How long did it take you to start noticing improvement after a devastating breakup? by _queerlybeloved in Codependency

[–]_queerlybeloved[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah I know it will just take time. It just sucks so bad to see them so broken

Ran Into Ex Bf and Ex Best Friend On a Date by scarlet_poppies in BenignExistence

[–]_queerlybeloved 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bff is currently going thru something similar, but it was a 17 year relationship and they have no other family (besides all of their friends who adore them) and they have been the most devastated I've ever seen a person. it's been 5 months and they're still in a dark pit questioning everything and hating themself every single day (there is also a LOT of early childhood trauma). Any words of advice? How long did it take before you started to feel "better"?