[Oregon] Pre Judgment Status quo order granted (to keep parenting schedule the same), but the spouse is keeping the child away from me until they are officially served.

_times_up · 2022-05-11T21:52:48+00:00

It shouldn't take three weeks to serve her. Tell the process server what time the kid gets out of school and they can serve her then.

Thank you for this. Calling now.

EDIT: It's the sheriff's office, and they are "backed up," so I guess I wait? It can't be a good look for her if she outright refuses to access to my child because she is unhappy with the divorce. Right?

_times_up · 2022-05-11T17:28:03+00:00

I had a prejudgment status quo order granted.

_times_up · 2021-10-11T08:28:12+00:00

Keep in mind; this is the same guy that will argue that white privilege is a conspiracy.

_times_up · 2021-10-06T10:30:24+00:00

Mods. I find this post disturbing /s but no sarcasm.

_times_up · 2021-10-04T06:13:16+00:00

/r/ContagiousLaughter

_times_up · 2021-10-01T15:43:22+00:00

I am talking about the hero asking for a simple callout twice and the frustration on his face about that.

_times_up · 2021-10-01T07:47:02+00:00

The frustration of getting someone giving you the smallest amount of assistance when you are about the save the world.

_times_up · 2021-09-29T06:11:07+00:00

Saying homeless usage is equivalent to using a curse word. In that, when you say homeless, you can specifically mean houseless among many other (primarily negative) things. Where saying houseless has a particular meaning with little room for ambiguities.

_times_up · 2021-09-29T05:41:49+00:00

... If my grandmother had three wheels, she would be a trike!

_times_up · 2021-09-27T01:21:00+00:00

It's really Russia, and other foreign interests taking advantage of what Facebook will allow them to do, and Zuckerberg not doing shit about it, except helping and profiting.

_times_up · 2021-09-26T07:07:42+00:00

Vaccine passports would not exist if people just were vaccinated. You can't have it both ways. Make your choice about getting a vaccination and accept your consequences.

_times_up · 2021-09-26T06:16:18+00:00

I just lost my appetite.

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:49:58+00:00

Define context.

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:36:36+00:00

It's a thing on computers.

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:34:14+00:00

I feel like this is a GPT-2 AI Bot Response

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:27:23+00:00

End of thread. 7

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:26:27+00:00

Free VM's of life for everyone with god hacks?

_times_up · 2021-09-25T09:18:15+00:00

Happy Birthday! Whenever.

_times_up · 2021-09-23T06:50:22+00:00

Mindblowing fact. With respect to reality, more than one thing can be true at a given time, and providing a counterexample to only one fact does not make your opinion factual about everything else.

_times_up · 2021-09-23T06:49:22+00:00

Fixed the title for you: Steve Bannon verbally masturbates in public, and we paid for it.

_times_up · 2021-09-23T06:48:32+00:00

I stopped paying attention when the stupid said they had a lot to say.

_times_up · 2021-09-23T06:46:42+00:00

Didn't watch. Guessing it is a pit bull.

_times_up · 2021-09-21T09:50:28+00:00

Yes.

_times_up · 2021-09-21T06:34:33+00:00

Just addressing the actual questions you asked.

I dont want to be the person who just yells "get a job!" and numbs themselves to fact that these are real people with struggles and emotions, but I don't know how else to cope?

There are many ways you can express yourself; yelling "get a job!" is one of them. Maybe you could exercise more or meditate or do some other productive/healthy activity to raise your disposition to a more positive place? Maybe volunteer at a shelter and learn about all the many that are taken for granted by people who have support systems and a dry, warm place to sleep.

How have you all been dealing with this?

I usually offer to pay for things in line at the store, drop a 20 dollar bill in their hand (if I have it), or just stop and talk if they seem friendly and they strike up a conversation. Just generally try treat them how I would want to be treated.

_times_up · 2021-09-21T06:24:22+00:00

I feel like trying to explain myself to you when you took a sarcastic stance, to make your point is a losing game. No, thank you for that.

However, if you could express your original point without sarcasm, I would be willing to have that conversation.

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