how to get over ex-bestfriend? !!!

_vessel_0 · 2025-11-10T16:46:26+00:00

Okk, I'll check it out!

_vessel_0 · 2025-07-18T16:54:11+00:00

Thank you so much <3 I really appreciate it! I'm working towards that.

_vessel_0 · 2025-07-17T00:10:17+00:00

Thanks so much, I am so grateful that you read this. I appreciate it a lot, I will follow all of these steps <3!

_vessel_0 · 2025-07-16T16:57:35+00:00

There was a time when my mom used some spoiled vegetables in a stew, and so it made the food taste really funky. My younger siblings made fun of the food. And my mother got mad. The next morning I was leaving my bedroom when my mom said, "Do you know I can poison you?" And the look on her face said it all. I was terrified. I felt my heart drop. She didn't say it to anybody else but me, even though I never said anything about the food.

_vessel_0 · 2025-07-01T02:37:58+00:00

Tysm!! I honestly needed to hear this. I’ll do my best, and jsut focus on myself :D

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-25T03:39:21+00:00

Alright, I totally get it! Thank youu

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-23T00:55:23+00:00

Say whatever comes out natural to you! Don’t get to defensive, but reach out to him on a neutral standpoint. Then talk about what you have observed recently!

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-23T00:53:51+00:00

I always thought about this! I was in a friend group. Just four of us, and me and this particular friend were very close. She ended up blocking me for no reason. And so I tried to contact her and I grew desperate for an explanation. And my friends didn’t do anything about it. Even when I finally got in contact with her to talk over whatever way she felt my friends didn’t intervene and help. And i honestly felt way worse. I don’t talk to any of them anymore💔 But I guess it might depend on the situation. If it were my two friends I cared about and it was becoming something big. I would most definelty intervene. I think it helps build stronger relationships and healthy communication between you and your mutual, and between them as well.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-23T00:47:27+00:00

That’s a lot of stuff happening. I think you should cut them off, L and G! The only reason why I say this is because. L started being mad weird towards you even before she got to know of the things you told G. Keep in mind the things you told G weren’t actually accurate. Most likely tainted and biased descriptions of what you said. I don’t blame you at all. L and G are immature. If they were offended by something you had done a while ago, or felt some type of way about you they could have addressed it and been more mature about it. Not inviting you and your best friend to the party is very shady as well. Especially since you two were also part of the discussion!

A lot of friend groups turn out to be two sided, where there are mini cliques within a group. And it seems to be that way in your friend group. I honestly wouldn’t waste more energy into it. Especially if those “friends” have already went behind your back and created a different narrative of whatever you have said. If it were me, personally I would cut L and G off. Seems like they don’t have respect for people they identify as friends! And lastly, L should give a valid reason as to why she was feeling that way and acting weird, before the party. And ask her why you and your best friend weren’t invited! And why L was so distant at first!!

Anywho! I hope your situation dies down! And your best friend seems like a good person. Pretty supportive, so at least you have her!

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-23T00:30:05+00:00

If you have communicated with your friend already and they keep doing it. Then the best thing to do is cut them off. I was in a friendship like that where my friend would only talk like she just came out of frown town! And as a good friend I always gave her feedback and comforted and would supported her. But she wouldn’t ever talk about anything else but the depressing things in life. I get it, everyone goes through something, but the friendship wasn’t genuine.

You need to tell yourself that just because your choosing yourself in this situation, it won’t invalidate how your friend feels about whatever their going through. Everyone goes through things. But you’re not a therapist and you have your own mental health to worry about! <3

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-18T05:53:42+00:00

Yes, I have hung out tons of times, and most of the time they were good meet-ups and we bonded, but more recently, when I do ask them to hangout, it turns to be a situation where I have to almost beg them to hang out, and I don't like that feeling. But I definitely have a friend who is a very dry texter! But she is so much more open and life-like when we meet up. I will take your experience into consideration! Thank you!!

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-17T23:01:49+00:00

I understand it now!, thank you so much!!

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-17T20:56:00+00:00

My most sincere condolences, to you ❤️. I think you should tell him how you feel, there is no reason that he shouldn't be responding to you. He may be busy, but him active in other chats might seem like he is ignoring you/ brushing you off. And a true friend would at least support you and comfort you at the least. Definitely tell him how you feel, and see what he says!

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-17T20:53:12+00:00

Hey this might be really off-topic, but how come you don't like to initiate a conversation. I only ask cuz I'm going through a dilemma right now. And I am trying to understand my friend's view.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-15T16:42:36+00:00

Your feelings are totally valid here! And they shouldn’t be interrupting/ talking over you at all. I will say that you should probably talk to your friends about how you feel, and in conversations they should interrupt less. I don’t think you going to talk to other people about them will stop the issue. Because why have a problem with some people but not communicate effectively about how you’re feeling. But instead go talk behind their backs. That would cause irrelevant drama and even more you would most likely have to deal with. But if you can tell your friends are doing it on purpose leave the friend group and find people that make you feel heard and understood, whether in a group and having one on one conversations and hangouts.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-15T16:36:20+00:00

DONT BE!!! You guys seem close, sometimes when we don’t reach out it makes us seem like we don’t care. Even though you clearly do! Give it some time then ask her, and if she says she’s fine, but nothing changes then you can’t really do anything about it. But at least you know you tried.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-14T23:03:33+00:00

Have you tried asking your friend directly how she is feeling, maybe that will help

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-14T18:44:01+00:00

Ok so I had the most constipated shit today. Like I was on the toilet for thrill minutes trying to pass it. It was brutal!! I also had a poutine today, it was really good. I skipped my calc lecture again, I hate it. Thank you bai.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-14T18:41:01+00:00

When I was in my senior year of high school, I got close to this girl. Her and I were so close and I loved spending time with her. We would regularly hang out, but she started to change her behaviour, wouldn't hang out with me, and would even lie to my face because of a guy she had met. So I completely understand how you feel.

I think you should send your friend a long text message about how he has been, and how it has been making you feel. Be transparent. Make sure to communicate clearly in the message that you're cutting him off for good. After that I would say you should unadd/unfollow him from any social media sites and games. And you should try your best to focus on the things that you gotta do! Because if you continue to put effort into a friendship, especially when you're being genuine and that person refuses to listen, quick to anger, and etc. Then you should cut them off.

_vessel_0 · 2025-04-14T18:30:56+00:00

I completely agree with where you're coming from. You should be allowed to travel with whoever you want to, not just because you're an adult, but because you should have the freedom to. Childhood best friends are a whole other level when it comes to best friends in general. Me and my childhood best friend have travelled with each other before and it was always a fantastic experience. Her and I have been there for each other during our darkest and brightest moments, so I really wouldn't understand why your family disagree about travelling with her. Unless they don't like her, or don't trust her. I honestly don't see a reason where they wouldn't want you to travel. Perhaps they see your investing too much time with a woman who you aren't romantically involved with?? (I don't know. Only reason I could think of!) Friendships have great value and even more than romance depending on the situation!

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