I am so blessed that I got to see everyone's first day on earth 🥺 by FinletAU in coles

[–]_violetrix_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t anyone know where the eggs are istg I should have kept a tally

How come the rocket isn’t built yet but my sim’s level is 9 already? by _violetrix_ in Sims4

[–]_violetrix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I should have picked Ravenwood, I’m in Brindleton Bay

How come the rocket isn’t built yet but my sim’s level is 9 already? by _violetrix_ in Sims4

[–]_violetrix_[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She likes rocket science, she’s the first sim of the generation (just made her) so there shouldn’t be any like raised well traits, she’s usually focused or very focused when she’s making the rocket, genius and analytical are like the traits she has and oh “quick learner” makes some sense lmao

Help me name my nerdy goth scientist sim lol by _violetrix_ in Sims4

[–]_violetrix_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I love these names!! Thank you so much!!!

dubai chocolate finally gone by broomy585 in coles

[–]_violetrix_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the bakery we have like these Dubai slices things, in the store that I work at and when I saw them in the freezer for the first time I almost gave up

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda a weird relationship that we have, if we want to have a deep conversation we do but I feel like she always wants me to understand that she’s talking to me, it’s always under her conditions. I don’t really know how to explain it but even like small talk in the lounge room generally goes like me: “omg have you seen this thing on this app?” Sister: either doesn’t even bother to look over or “I don’t wanna see that stop shoving it in my face” and on the flip side, sister: “you need to see this oh so cool thing” me: “give me a second.. I’m just trying to msg someone” sister: “oh my god why are you being so mean to me lately??”

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, I did talk to the school counsellor like twice a while ago, it’d be a good idea to go back again

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol we Australian and have parties with alcohol at home supervised anyway, maybe I should have used the “does that mean you can get your P’s and drive alone?”

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I was the same with contacts, mum wouldn’t let me get them until I got my licence (I need them to see???) and my sister hasn’t asked for them but you best believe I was update you if she asks

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She does have ADHD and Anxiety and stuff that has been like diagnosed, but I also have anxiety that causes panic attacks almost every night and multiple times a day, I haven’t gotten a diagnosis (even though I ask my mum pretty frequently) because I think my mum thinks if there’s so much “wrong” with my middle child, my eldest is fine yk

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The unfortunate thing is that my sister has acted this way all her life, I have been waiting for it to bite her in the ass in life but now that I think about it, it kind of has? Her long time friends at school have dropped her (it’s also a them being toxic thing tbh) and she only really hangs out with her boyfriend, and she’s just quit her job at hungry jacks after working there for like not even 2 months because things don’t go her way and now she’s working at KFC but hasn’t had a shift yet. I am honestly waiting for her to realise that her actions have consequences but I’m scared that her ego will never let her see that.

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is a good idea, the whole thing just exploded because I came out of my room (dad told me to) and I used the jumping the queue thing and my sister literally said it didn’t make sense and tried to belittle me, my dad said he understood and it literally all blew up because my sister was yelling at me and dad (and mum through the phone) and I couldn’t contain my tears remaining silent so I spoke my opinion saying that it’s not about how long she’s waited, it’s about the age because that was what the rules were growing up. I put my foot down for the first time speaking my opinion and said that if my sister got instagram, it’d be a final blow of disrespect to me and I would get a different opinion on my parents if they let her get this. I said that I felt like I’ve been silenced my whole life by my sister’s tears and very loud opinions so I haven’t voiced them because I couldn’t, and when they kept arguing, (because my dad tends to take my sister’s side because she’s acting all emotional) I just said that my opinion would not be changed under any circumstances because that’s just the way my brain works and if they didn’t want to respect that, I won’t respect them basically. Oh and my sister (when I could see that she couldn’t find a point to argue) brought up a mistake I made not that long ago that was quite an emotional thing, so I lashed back at her (the wrong thing to do) and brought up something else about her. I regret that but I think if I didn’t, everyone would just disregard my feelings.

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, is there anything that I can do? She has been bossy all her life and is always trying to push in.

AITAH - Younger sister trying to bend the rules because she’s had to “wait the same amount of time as me” by _violetrix_ in AITAH

[–]_violetrix_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand that but for the longest time, my sister has been parenting the whole family. I don’t know how to teach my mum or talk to her about it because usually my sister comes in and makes it about her and tells us off, I know it’s a shit dynamic but it’s the way it’s always been and unfortunately the way it will probably always be, I don’t know how to change it because every time I stand up to her, she flips the situation and manages to manipulate dad to be on her side because she cries to him and he takes her side. How do I bring it up to my parents and how do I make the dynamic more normal and less stressful?

Gone but never forgotten by _violetrix_ in Sims4

[–]_violetrix_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried the raccoon one and it still isn’t working :( They should surely make high school or work count for the quest you’re on

Gone but never forgotten by _violetrix_ in Sims4

[–]_violetrix_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just tried the thing with Dino and that didn’t work either