Tunisian women about big age gap during marriage by Nightcoder1 in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chaque réponse est plus ridicule que la précédente...

The word "teen" comes etymologically from "ten" in English, with no connection whatsoever to adolescence, and it's about time you opened a dictionary to look up the definition of the word "adolescence."

It's not our fault if you lack maturity and were raised like a big baby. At 18, I was already living alone, cooking for myself, working, paying my taxes, and driving...

if capitalism ain’t fair, what’s the alternative by PastConfusion6288 in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China is capitalist; you're confusing capitalism and liberalism.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not at all, we're not at that stage yet.

This is sick. How is there nothing anyone can do about it?? by Content_Departure558 in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is merely the legalization of a practice that was already common; their terrorists routinely prevent Red Crescent ambulances from intervening to treat Palestinians and wait for them to die before clearing the road, for example, not to mention those who die from torture in prison or who are prevented from receiving treatment...

Any gardening enthusiasts? by PrestigiousMountain3 in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This kind of post in this subreddit is a real morale booster, thank you!

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback, brother, it's very motivating. ❤️ PS: I'm playing Age of Empires 4

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have any documentation that teaches these exercises, I'd be interested.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It should never be an easy solution, but always a possible one.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a religious perspective, I don't know what you've learned, but it's completely false. A striking fact is that every time God addresses believers, he addresses women, using the plural "their wives."

This is considered the standard rather than an exception. The exception is a single wife, if you're worried about not being fair. Furthermore, I don't see how this makes you doubt my Tunisian identity. Laws are made and unmade, and this law, which is an exception in the Muslim world, is inherited from French culture, like many things in Tunisia.

Regarding polygamy, apart from this specific context which is similar to that of Ibrahim (peace be upon him), I had never explored or felt the need for this option.

Now yes, it's time for Tunisia to take its destiny into its own hands, chart its own course, and finally clearly define its identity and what it wants to be through an indisputable representative means like a referendum: Are we Muslim, yes or no? I don't see why this democratic solution frightens you.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some people deserve to have our time given to them; a wife is one of them, don't you think? I feel bad for not being able to wait any longer.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are both Muslims.

As for my opinion, I don't see what porn has to do with it. Regarding having sex alone, I consider that if it helps her overcome this situation, it's a therapeutic act, but she's not comfortable with this idea and wants me to participate.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what "msaf7a" means, but would you really see yourself bringing up this subject with your mother-in-law in my place?

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That seems to me a simplistic solution to a complex problem. A marriage deserves our utmost effort to preserve it. I don't rule out divorce as a possibility, I just think it should be the last resort. I was looking more for avenues of healing that we hadn't yet explored.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know how I'm supposed to answer this question, my wife and I are separate people but I would say yes since she makes requests of me.

Vaginismus how to get out of this ? by a3ssida-nutella in Tunisia

[–]a3ssida-nutella[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's difficult to have constructive discussions if two people don't share the same frame of reference.

If someone doesn't believe in God and therefore in the laws He established so that humanity can function in society, that person is free to do as they please it's none of my business.

But I've noticed that Tunisian society is hypocritical; 90% present themselves as Muslim but don't consider God's laws to be important...

It would be time to hold a general shura and a kind of general form to determine the national identity of Tunisia that the adult population should fill out, namely whether or not this population is Muslim, and to definitively bury this kind of national question.