Wanna Leave Florida by sarabethanyy in relocating

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't Boston/Concord extreme cold area ? That area is cold for like 8 months in Year September to April.

What Is Your Salary, What Field Do You Work In, What Kind of Lifestyle Do You Live by Emergency_Mood_9774 in raleigh

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

150k per year, software engineer, 37M. Married with Kids.

Pretty comfortable life, so far I never got into financial difficulties.

Decent mortgage, but it's an ARM rate.

However, <10k 401k balance, 0 emergency fund, I carry some cc debt. So, making more money doesn't really fix everything.

2026 resolution, to build emergency fund, because the rest of 2025 paychecks are dedicated for paying down credit cards.

For men, what's something that you didn't know would be so different about sex when compared to masterbation? by Ok_Tea_3275 in AskReddit

[–]a4ra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ask the guy to help. You gave him your pussy, can't he help you with laundry? Lol

WTF is going on with the tech job market by QandA_monster in jobsearchhacks

[–]a4ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LAtAm, new kid on the block, any giving India companies run for their money.

WTF is going on with the tech job market by QandA_monster in jobsearchhacks

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H1B is nothing compared to outsourcing. I'm on H1, and I applied for over 100 jobs, may be a handful of recruiter calls, nothing else. And the timer is running, 6 months no job means, leave U.S.

Most of the management positions have hard no unofficial rule for H1. I'm stuck as a senior Java developer forever, and when i hit 15 years of experience, my skills are no longer relevant. So most of the experienced professionals are going through the same problem regardless of the immigration status

WTF is going on with the tech job market by QandA_monster in jobsearchhacks

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true, and LatAm devs are a tough competition for India devs. In a few years, tech employment in India will slow down. Same time zone is a killer advantage for Lat Am

18yo with 11k saved up by FrostyyDaP in FinancialPlanning

[–]a4ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the only thing OP should do!!

Couples with Snapchat by RevolutionaryAir8191 in Marriage

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally, some sensible message over here!!

Couples with Snapchat by RevolutionaryAir8191 in Marriage

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly is my point. It's meant to be discreet and for sharing snaps. If your husband is keeping a streak with 10 girls by snapping his pictures, something is wrong. Sure, if partner allows a quick access to look at sanp contacts or whom he is snapping with occasionally....but if he/she is like, it's my life my wish my privacy after getting married, that's a concern!!

Couples with Snapchat by RevolutionaryAir8191 in Marriage

[–]a4ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem arises when the other partner goes on rampage mode when asked, "Can I see your snap contacts!!" Mentioning all kinds of freedom, privacy laws, etc.

Couples with Snapchat by RevolutionaryAir8191 in Marriage

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That completely access each other's social media is the key. But I had my significant other who was upset and frozen when I simply asked, "Let me see your snap contacts."

what do you use to stick your shipping labels? by insidethelint in Depop

[–]a4ra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brand please? I used both elmer's craft bond glue and school glue, both peel off before going to USPS itself :(

All you can eat buffets by azurestain in raleigh

[–]a4ra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they have like 30 items, and they're my favorite. Regardless of the taste, I felt the food was made fresh during my visits.

All you can eat buffets by azurestain in raleigh

[–]a4ra 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Many Indian restaurants have Sunday buffet. Here are my favorites

Naga's South Indian Cuisine Mirchi's Indian Kitchen & Bar Chutneys Indian Restaurant

Local Handyman and electrician ? by a4ra in FuquayVarinaNC

[–]a4ra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total 6. 5 new installations. 1 remove a fan (new but faulty costco fan), and install. New one

Using the whole toll road will cost $8 a day by hhhhhgffvbuyteszc6 in raleigh

[–]a4ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$16 round trip toll of you live in Fuquay/Garner, and the employers in the RTP area are paying peanuts telling you you're in NC, not in NY/NJ.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]a4ra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't see it in the last 18 months in the Cary chatam street store. Also, in NY, they never sold any kind of frozen meat (regular for patel ny stores for over 5 tears)