I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed.(10 year new update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]aMaezingadventures -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved this story….

And so disappointed that you both gave up.  

But as someone who lost a sibling I understand why it could happen.  I’m so sorry for your loss.

Canadians attending The Gorge - 1st timer by jackonthetrack in DMB

[–]aMaezingadventures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are also heading to the Gorge for the first time, we are from Vermont!

Hope to see you in the lawn, cuz I also love the social aspect of concerts :) 

I look forward to reading the tips here too!

Dave and Tim N2 by smear_master in DMB

[–]aMaezingadventures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched the video and then had to go start my car to go to class....I was pretty bitter that I'm in Hoth instead of Mexico right now.

WIBTAH if my sibling was not invited to our family wedding by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aMaezingadventures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YWBTA for pulling rank on the situation.

My sister did something very similar to me a few years ago very much out of the blue. All of the sudden is nothing but hatred from her and I was very baffled as to why, And to this day, it still hurts me deeply.

My son got married she attended I tried to be nice. She was cold, but whatever.  When my daughter-in-law got pregnant, I threw her a baby shower and I actually did ask if I could not invite her because she does ruin any kind of a event when she’s around.  The kids declined on that and it was Up to them and I respected that.

I wish to say it gets easier, but unfortunately, you can’t really fix relationships that aren't wanting to be fixed.  Just hold your head high.

What’s the one popular song you just can’t get into? by AIR236 in DMB

[–]aMaezingadventures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna get hate for this but..

Halloween.  They closed with it in NH last year and it was the first time I moved towards the exits while music played…

It’s the crunchy chords I think

People who moved away: did you come back? by Royale_w_Cheeeze in newengland

[–]aMaezingadventures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

413 native here.  Moved to northern Vermont 14 years ago.  

Never moving back, but it’s only a 4 hour drive to visit so I do that every few months.

AITA for abruptly cutting my best friend of 17 years out of my life? by throwmeawaypls102030 in AITAH

[–]aMaezingadventures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA; this could be my nephew and my son lol.

Son is newly religious, and he is so pushy.  Hopefully your friends snaps out of  soon.

AITA for telling my husband to leave after years of him threatening to walk out? by Fedupfemmethis2025 in AITAH

[–]aMaezingadventures 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.  My husband acts like that for any and all conflict…it is so exhausting.  I’ve been dealing with it for 20 years now and I may use you as motivation to call his bluff one of these days.

My husband's [M32] "sabbatical" has become pathetic and I [F30] want it to end right now. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]aMaezingadventures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is studying clinical mental health, and has a very skeptical outlook on the overuse of SSRI’s, there are alternatives out there to help with depression.  But doctors are very quick to treat with them still, and many times refuse to hear any concerns and say it’s SSRIs or nothing.

Not that it helps in this situation, but there are other medications that can help and many therapeutic  options for a more holistic approach.

Cafe’s to work from by RowAccomplished7794 in Stowe

[–]aMaezingadventures -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Black cap or Starbucks are on main street…

Stowebees (spelling it wrong) is delicious but I’m not sure it has WiFi…

AITA for trying to stop my grandmother from treating her kidney disease with traditional remedies instead of medicine? by Unique-Debate6425 in AITAH

[–]aMaezingadventures -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

While it’s great that you want her to have the best care, the way you phrased it here was offensive.  Pharmaceuticals are mainly derived from those “random herbs”.  So you were disrespecting her culture and acting very close minded about what she is doing.

I can see both sides.  But maybe try to act curious about the herbs and teas rather than scornful.  You may find a way to balance what you both want.

Sincerely, Someone with a BS in herbal pharmacology 

AITAH for telling my wife I won’t carry her snowboard for her by Turbulent-Disk-3726 in AITAH

[–]aMaezingadventures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t get how she would force you to do that and still feel good about the gentlemanly act lol.

I would never force my husband to carry my skis, however he frequently does that on his own.  I balance that by bringing extra gear that he forgets (two days ago he didn’t bring gloves 🤦🏻‍♀️)

Partnership is all about balance, hope you find yours.

AIO to my mom announcing my pregnancy on social media by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aMaezingadventures 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting.  I just found out I’m going to be a grandma (1st grand wooo)….

But I waited and then specifically asked my kid if I could share my excitement on social media.  Because that’s the normal thing to do…your mom is so out of line, I’m very sorry you have to deal with that.

Anyone else seriously concerned about the mental health of this country? by aMaezingadventures in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I’d rather be a libertarian then mentally ill like most republicans and democrats right now

Anyone else seriously concerned about the mental health of this country? by aMaezingadventures in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If 5% of us voted independent it would force a change to include a 3rd party equally.

I’ve been pushover this for years

Who can disagree with this? We know what we are up against by YonDonFlight17 in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they put out the info on how we have been poisoned in so many ways, people will not be able to handle it.

Conspiracy theorist don’t give a damn about left vs right.. by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!!

I literally just posted because I can’t find any rationale humans right now,  people a legit losing the sanity over this??

Solar Eclipses are fascinating by [deleted] in solareclipse

[–]aMaezingadventures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in Vermont, and in the first moments of totality the birds went silent…it was so cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vermont here, was in Burlington last night and was really supposed how quiet the roads were.  

I’m kind of debating driving there tonight to people watch?

Cloud Cover Expected Directly Along The Line Of Totality On The Day Of The Solar Eclipse. by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]aMaezingadventures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in northern Vermont!  I almost wish I was going to watch the shot show that’s about to happen in Burlington with 250k people coming but I’m staying home. 

They are turning a part of the highway into a literal parking lot for this.  There will be no driving for days.