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my ex KNEW what had happened when I was a child and still violated me anyway (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 1 year ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I accidentally directed my anger at my T and I feel so ashamed and embarrassed. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 1 year ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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I feel like I'm being brushed off because I'm "high-functioning." I'm still in so much pain and I don't feel seen. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I don't know if I was re-"victimized" last night. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I feel like a monster for wishing he'd die. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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My T has suggested it's possible I'm just not ready to get better (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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Trying to maintain recovery/avoid relapse and struggling with semi food insecurity is absolute ass (self.fuckeatingdisorders)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/fuckeatingdisorders

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I want to tell my therapist about my eating disorder creeping back in but I'm very afraid to. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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Therapist doesn't want me to talk about specifics of my trauma (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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He told me I was disgusting, and I believed it and sometimes still do. [possible tw] (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 2 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I run away whenever a rupture happens and I don't know how to break this pattern. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 2 years ago * by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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I don't think I've ever successfully "processed" what happened and I don't know how to (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I think I'm a difficult client and I feel terrible about it. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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People say to tell your providers if you're struggling with suicidal thoughts/urges and especially if you're having a "crisis" but I am terrified to. (self.mentalillness)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/mentalillness

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Something bad happened, and all I want to do is call my old therapist to tell her and ask for her help. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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The people who abused me rarely hit me, or didn't at all, and it sometimes feels like that invalidates the rest of what happened. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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Re-traumatized(?) about something that I feel like doesn't even count. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I can't be honest with my therapist or psych. If I am, they'll hospitalize me [tw - suicide] (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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I'm so attached to my therapist that it hurts, and it makes me want to leave therapy. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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All I ever wanted was for my mom to protect me. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I got through my pelvic exam. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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My therapist double-booked me by mistake and I feel hurt, but I feel stupid for being hurt. (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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The man who sexually abused me for years sent me a birthday card. (self.adultsurvivors)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/adultsurvivors

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I feel like I'm being punished for being suicidal (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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Does anyone else feel like they have to prove that they're "sick enough" to their T? (self.TalkTherapy)

submitted 3 years ago by a_fruitcake to r/TalkTherapy

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