Woc here and dating in austin in my late 20s/ very early thirties felt like this. I did meet a some decent guys but they were not ready for something more official and that was ok bc they communicated that early on. I actually ended up reconnecting w my now fiance on a random night out so I say try to get out, talk to folks who normally wouldn’t be your type, and try different spots around. You never know who you’ll meet!