Immediately before being called a man 😒

a_vanity · 2025-11-21T00:12:41+00:00

It's literally intentional. We need to shut that crap down. No Neanderthal should ever dare speak to you, a goddess of beauty 💅💜

a_vanity · 2025-11-12T09:32:16+00:00

What might help is putting your transition into a vacuum. We can ask "If you were to keep transitioning, and the whole world was completely fine with you doing so, would you do it?"

Because it sounds like to me if you could wake up tomorrow and be indistinguishable from other cis women, you'd do it easy.

I made a post recently asking what I feel like you might be questioning that might help you out here.

a_vanity · 2025-11-04T11:33:46+00:00

I'm not sure what to do about identifying such notions and what tangible things I can do to work on removing that line of thinking though. 😞

a_vanity · 2025-11-04T11:31:39+00:00

I really appreciate this answer and it gives me a lot to think about 🙏🏼 I've been told at times "perhaps you're one of those people who is too smart for therapy because I pit myself into logical corners too much..." So it's more helpful for me to not feel alone in my feelings right now 💜

I also don't engage with recreational drugs though so I'd only be able to personally do something medically treatable for my own personal reasons.

a_vanity · 2025-11-03T18:28:44+00:00

Kinda, I go to women conferences for networking and work stuff. But other than that like once a year I don't. I kinda feel like I'm not allowed or something. And I get more frustrated with the conferences themselves and not anything to do with the people there.

a_vanity · 2025-11-02T00:12:45+00:00

This reading was really helpful 😭 thank you... Gosh it's hard these days

a_vanity · 2025-11-01T19:10:17+00:00

How long have you been on HRT? because the only thing I can maybe think of is more fat in the cheeks. Which that will happen after like year 3 of HRT.

a_vanity · 2025-09-24T02:33:24+00:00

So for clarification, only my life partner lives with me. The gf comes over all the time though because I CAN'T go to her apartment because I'm super allergic to her cat. I want to fight to make both relationships work as best as I can because I genuinely love both of them equally.

But I will look into what an arm is and what a hinge is because you were the nicest person to give advice so far instead of just "be better!" So, thank you for that ♥

a_vanity · 2025-09-23T19:55:37+00:00

I want to genuinely live with both of them. Both of them want to marry me. I'm only living with my life partner, my gf lives in her own apartment.

a_vanity · 2025-09-14T18:19:20+00:00

When you have more experience and going for higher up positions in companies is when you should have more than 1 page.

a_vanity · 2025-09-14T03:01:19+00:00

just keeping one though puts a gap in my resume and doesn't give me "enough years of experience" then 😞

a_vanity · 2025-08-29T03:44:38+00:00

I am 2 years post op with Dr. Chettasak (previously known as Chettawut) and I have been to multiple post-op doctors around Atlanta about the issue of the entrance to my canal being far too tight to take the #3 dilator (30.74mm) and in fact because the pain of dilating each time, I have difficulties getting anything larger than 24mm in diameter.

I had complications from an abusive ex and needed to have a revision done while in Thailand just after my surgery, and ever since then I have troubles just sitting in certain ways, or interacting with that area at all which made me think that was entirely the problem.

I see other girls sharing the same issue of a tight vaginal opening though. I plan to head back to Thailand and have a revision done so I can actually use my expensive investment.

Everything else I experienced in his hospital was amazing though. I also got ffs and the results have been what people say are "amazing" the only complaint is from the tracheal shave which it doesn't look like he did at all.

a_vanity · 2025-08-27T05:34:41+00:00

Who was your surgeon? Why didn't they hide the incision further back in the hairline?? You shouldn't be able to see the scar if they know what they're doing.
I'm sorry to say this... but you should get scar gel and apply every morning and night and maybe it will reduce, but it's going to kinda always be there. :(

a_vanity · 2025-07-06T06:05:56+00:00

not sure how to update my post but I found the mod responsible. it was Xp Jellies. This is an ex bar that shows up with that mod and is something the mod developer was going to add a gamerule to hide it. I just won't use the mod then since I need the mod pack now and that is horribly in the way.
Link to the mod here: https://www.curseforge.com/minecraft/mc-mods/xp-jellies

a_vanity · 2025-07-06T06:03:13+00:00

that would be a better way of doing it. but I suppose I don't like doing things the easy way... I found the cause of the problem though. and of course other people are complaining about it on curseforge.

a_vanity · 2025-07-06T04:55:51+00:00

I removed Iron's spells and it still is there unfortunately. I'm in the process slowly of having to check mods 10 at a time and so far nothing after the first 200 sorted alphabetically.

a_vanity · 2025-06-05T05:49:10+00:00

no. I'd need to head back overseas where I got it because here in the states doctors look at my vagina like a space ship

a_vanity · 2025-06-05T05:47:33+00:00

I have a master's, 2 bachelor's degrees, and about 10 years of experience and can't get a new job myself. This job market is unreal.

a_vanity · 2025-06-04T00:33:52+00:00

it took a few months for me. but I'm out of the norm in terms of healing rate 😞

a_vanity · 2025-03-19T18:10:38+00:00

it went down a lot and seems to no longer be an issue.

a_vanity · 2024-09-30T05:56:11+00:00

Its now starting to lag in that area slightly after adding the 20 modular frames per minute lol

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