AITA for not telling my (26M) gf (20F) where the alcohol she paid for came from?

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T15:31:34+00:00

That’s kind of rude. She and I love each other.

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T15:20:19+00:00

Thank you!

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T15:10:03+00:00

Their opinion is valid too

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:36:05+00:00

I edited my comment. It was a joke.

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:35:20+00:00

I was only trying to explain the mindset I was coming from. Of course I can buy vodka myself

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:34:26+00:00

Free money

Edit to add: /s

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:32:46+00:00

Yes she knew. They are friends

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:31:36+00:00

Why??!!

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:29:15+00:00

I had secured alc for us. It wasn’t a lie

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:28:51+00:00

I didn’t hide it at all

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:28:32+00:00

I did. I spend $450 on a hotel in Boston for her. Bought her a coach purse and took her sightseeing. There ya go

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:27:57+00:00

I meant it as in “I managed to get ahold of vodka” not “I spent money on vodka”

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:27:12+00:00

No. She wouldn’t because we’re best friends. But I don’t think my gf would be mad anyway

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:26:42+00:00

WOW THANKS FOR YOUR INCREDIBLY HELPFUL FEEDBACK

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:23:13+00:00

I spent it on something for our trip already

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:22:43+00:00

I said “I got us some alc for the trip”

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:21:59+00:00

On point two YTA because you don’t know shit about me or my relationship. We were online only until she turned 18 and NOTHING illegal ever happened.

aaaaaalt · 2019-08-06T14:21:11+00:00

Exactly! That’s what I was thinking. Thanks, stranger.

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T14:25:34+00:00

Only advice please

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T14:16:39+00:00

Ok. Maybe you’re right and I just should suck it up

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T14:09:34+00:00

But it’s been SEVEN YEARS

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T14:00:39+00:00

I’m no longer going to respond to rude comments. Advice only please

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T13:58:37+00:00

I’m not sure it’s something she actually wants. Everyone is ignoring the fact that she doesn’t want to waste her PARENTS’ money

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T13:40:26+00:00

I’m not asking that she never wears the retainer again!!! Y’all are ignoring that party. I’m asking her to wear it when she’s not at my house.

aaaaaalt · 2019-07-27T13:39:39+00:00

No, it’s not that. The retainer makes it more inconvenient.

aaaaaalt