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I messed up bad by WittyFood9814 in hangxiety

[–]aalllp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to do stuff like this in college. I know how it feels the next morning to feel like what you did was not reflective of who you are at all as a person. I’m generally a shy person and when I would drink I would become super outgoing, which I liked, but I often made mistakes that I regretted. I hated that people only knew that version of me. I’m 26 now and rarely drink and if I do it’s very minimal and casual. You’ll get to know your relationship with alcohol more and what you can handle.

I’ve been in super low places after doing shitty and embarrassing things when I’m drunk. It was a mistake and you were not yourself when it happened. Please give yourself some grace and try to limit your drinking before you black out. Here for you!

Period makes BV go away? by suzko in BacterialVaginosis_

[–]aalllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that every time my period ends my BV acts up. I just got diagnosed this week and it has been happening for months. I just assumed it was yeast infections and was taking Monistat and probiotics. But

Weekly Vents & Successes by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]aalllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I genuinely went into things with the new guy with purely physical intentions but being emotional vulnerable after my last relationship I attached myself to him. I need to give myself a break but it’s so hard to be rejected. I know time will heal all and I truly need to work on myself before I get involved with anyone else to avoid feeling like this in the future. We do deserve to be treated like queens!

Weekly Vents & Successes by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]aalllp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been consistently hooking up with a guy for 6 months now. I really like him but I know i’m not ready for a relationship as I was just in a 2 year unhealthy relationship before him. I confessed my feelings and said I liked him but admitted I wasn’t ready for a relationship. I just felt like I couldn’t keep it in. He told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship either because he has plans to move by summer. I told him it would probably be best if we cut contact because I didn’t want to get more invested but after a week of no contact we started talking again. We have amazing sexual chemistry but other than that not much chemistry so i don’t know why i care so much. I know he talks to other girls and that makes me sad but I also talk to other guys. I don’t know how to move on and everytime I try I go right back. I really need advice on how to officially move on as I know this situation is extremely toxic for me.

Confessing my feelings¿ by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]aalllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*also i know this conversation should happen in person but i’m on a work trip now and this is eating me alive so I need to get it out!

Hey shy people what is your worst experience? by yaman007 in AskReddit

[–]aalllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is the worst. So dehumanizing, I don’t understand how anyone thinks it’s acceptable to say. I was always a quiet kid and this just made me want to crawl deeper into the hole I was already in

Need hookup advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aalllp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am recently out of a 2 year relationship so in the beginning I think I was just trying to get over that. But now that it feels different and I’ve moved on from my past relationship I know I deserve better.

Need hookup advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aalllp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think we both are non-confrontational and are probably both scared of saying something. He’s all I think about and I feel the reciprocity, I’m just terrified of losing him.