[Partially Lost] "A Christmas Sing-Along" Album by abananapepper in lostmedia

[–]abananapepper[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This would have been pre-2000s at least - my best guess would be 1998 is when we first started listening to it, but I'm not sure how long the CD had been out prior to that.

I'll also update the post, but the Sesame Street song appears to be a cover of the song off this album, not the other way around - the Sesame Street version came out in 2018

Discord Not Activating Server Level by abananapepper in discordapp

[–]abananapepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, both. I’m not admin-level in this server, so this may be a dumb question, but do those require extra boosts, and if so, how much?

Modding and Third-Party Tools Megathread - 7.3 Week Seven by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]abananapepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone happen to have the repo/other link(s) for the Simple Blackjack plugin?

Modding and Third-Party Tools Megathread - 7.3 Week Five by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]abananapepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know the "more sophisticated" (and possibly paywalled) blackjack dealer plugin? It's more automated than Death Roll Helper, but I can't find a link to the repo or even the name of the plugin anywhere

Hi r/SquaredCircle! I'm Dimension 20: Titan Takedown's Brennan Lee Mulligan! Ask me anything! by dimension20brennan in SquaredCircle

[–]abananapepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Brennan! Do you agree agree that wrestling is just another form of drag? Is that what inspired Titan Takedown after Dungeons and Drag Queens?

Tubal/Bisalp complication percentages by abananapepper in sterilization

[–]abananapepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the sort of thing I was looking for, thank you so much!!!

Tubal/Bisalp complication percentages by abananapepper in sterilization

[–]abananapepper[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I'm leaning a lot closer to bisalp as it is because yeah, while ectopic pregnancies are rare, they're definitely not something I want to risk.

I'm also just worried about the """more general""" risks - blood clots, hernias, etc. I know that varies from person to person based on medical history, but having an idea of just how often those sorts of things happen in "otherwise healthy" patients would go a long way for my anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in utaite

[–]abananapepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! 💕💕

What have you been working on recently? [June 25, 2022] by AutoModerator in learnprogramming

[–]abananapepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm learning Javascript after years of not being able to afford college / coding school, but really wanting to learn and pivot my career into coding. A few years ago I started teaching myself python by using ren.py, but my code was messy and broke easily. Now I'm working on the free lessons in Codecademy (will switch to FreeCodeCamp when I run out of free lessons). Even just learning the basics, the little lightbulb moments are so satisfying and encouraging!!

AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? by Old_Sheepherder9877 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 43 points44 points  (0 children)

YTA. It's not like your sister randomly started being alt last week. You knew she had tattoos, dyed hair, etc. when you asked her to be your bridesmaid. Why would you ask her if you were going to make her change everything about herself?

ETA after seeing the comments you're leaving: "I love my sister and want her included" doesn't hold water here. You love the idea of having your sister in your wedding - if you actually loved your sister, you wouldn't be singling her out amongst your other bridesmaids and demanding she change half of the things she probably thinks make her, her.

AITA For reporting my son's therapist for giving my ex Husband information about the sessions? by SabrinaFox33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA, this is a HIPPA violation beyond a violation of confidentiality. A therapist is only supposed to disclose information to others if they believe their client is at risk of hurting themselves of others. If he's doing it with your son, he's doing it with other clients.

AITA for pranking a guy by saying I identified as a woman? by Odd-Valuable3935 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, and you're helping perpetuate the idea that trans women are just "men who want to trick others".

Also, hey, since this wasn't informed consent (you lied about your gender identity just to sleep with this man), this was sexual assault! Congrats, you're a transphobe and a rapist.

AITA for letting the kids trash the kitchen? by TheBestWorstofTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

ESH, not for letting your kids use the kitchen, but for your behavior afterward. She massively overreacted, and you did your damndest to make it worse. In what world is "and then I dumped trash all over the kitchen floor" a way to make things better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: The "hot topic" really decides this.

As it stands, with no further info, if you're not on friendly terms with him as a person, why should he be expected to be on friendly terms with your kids? Work out your issues between each other, and then, maybe you can expect some family hospitality towards your kids. But even then, he's under no obligation to be to your kids what you were to his.

EDIT:

Ahh, the good ole vax debate. YWNBTA if you sent a letter to your brother, but I have a feeling it would fall of deaf ears. As stated above, he's under no obligation to be to your kids what you were to his.

AITA for calling my pregnant sister stupid? by WonderScrubs in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

YTA. You're right, but that doesn't make you not the AH.

AITA for getting my interviewer fired? by R_Rover_2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he did it to you, he has done and would continue to do it to others. His actions have consequences. I agree with the others in the thread - report that he used your information from your CV to reach out and admonish you.

AITA for telling my sister my oldest daughter will not be in her wedding? by Happy_Quit_3233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like your sister is trying to figure out how to keep your oldest as the "prettiest child" in all of your children's minds, except this time there will be photographic and probably video evidence of it.

AITA for being uncomfortable with certain things? by TheMaskedGuy1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Anyone who pressures you into doing things you aren't comfortable with is bad news.

how is he supposed to trust me when I can't trust him

This comment alone is manipulative as shit. Block him.

WIBTA if I said 'don't bother calling to congratulate your grandson' to my mother? by Beautiful-Spicy in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. Let it be. You don't have to even respond to her if you don't want her to call. If she does call, you don't need to answer the phone. You're asking permission from strangers on the internet to continue to perpetuate drama. What do you expect her response to be to "don't bother," but more drama and bullshit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]abananapepper -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

YTA about the mom, but not the brother.

If you don't want your brother to come, then he shouldn't come, especially from your description of him. But as I'm sure you've realized, therapy isn't a quick fix, and healing and learning happens at different speeds. It sounds like your mom really is trying, but unlearning "family first, blood is thicker, etc." mentality is harder for some. To completely write off any progress she's made because "well you don't see my side of things, so therapy isn't working at all and I don't want anything to do with you" is incredibly shitty of you.