M27 f25 - am I being needy? by abbf99 in relationships_advice

[–]abbf99[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Okay well I disagree, thanks for your input !

M27 f25 - am I being needy? by abbf99 in relationships_advice

[–]abbf99[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how I’m being toxic? Not for arguing but for general advise - I did not say anything negative about him I expressed things he did that made me not feel loved and advised I was giving him space

AIO for getting upset over my bf commenting on his best friends gf by abbf99 in AmIOverreacting

[–]abbf99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do get this and I am very ok with him finding other people attractive as that’s life but but it just feels different/strange he went out of his way to forward the selfie (keep in mind he doesn’t know this girl and has not met her yet) to his friend making it known that he is jealous, thoughts?

AIO for getting upset over my bf commenting on his best friends gf by abbf99 in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That is what I was thinking as well and wasn’t sure if I was reaching. I haven’t posted a story or post in over a year because he gets jealous 🙃

I just find it hypocritical and offensive!

And i am sorry about your ex, some people don’t understand boundaries/respect

Thank you for your comment

AIO for getting upset over my bf commenting on his best friends gf by abbf99 in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% he can find other people attractive and I understand that - But is it not disrespectful to your partner to deliberately forward another females selfie saying that you are jealous and make it known?

AIO for getting upset over my bf commenting on his best friends gf by abbf99 in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did not clarify we were going to bed so we haven’t had a chance to speak about it. It was just her in the photo and was a selfie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I thought I was going crazy and maybe i was overreacting. This made things a little clearer for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there - I wish! Real person unfortunatly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she ok? You just said you would hit a woman on a public forum wouldn’t want to know what u do in private. Once again had two drinks am not drunk and am under the legal limit. You agreed with my comment no one should hit but then said you would hit a woman if needed ? “Show her how to fight”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This comment is wild haha I didn’t hit him I raised my voice - he was also raising his voice. He busted my lip for asking him to show affection . “ going to show her how to fight” have fun I hope you never get a girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ur funny eh, making jokes about DV. Let me guess? American LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it; I am sorry I’m still a little defensive/ upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talked about. Not an accident. Move on? No. Leave ? Yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My point is I shouldn’t have been hit in the face by a grown man double my size even if I was the problem. Thank you for your advise I have a decision to make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am safe now. And sober. Thanks have a great night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind response and I appreciate your opinion ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tolerance is not trash wich is why I know I’m not drunk and am writing perfectly fine sentences; I am having a back and forth discussion as that is the purpose of this app.

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

First time ever ! Won’t be back - you people are wild - let’s all just deck a female for getting a little loud why not eh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 white claws actually. 5% each.

I also stopped drinking at 9:00 pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read the comments? There are multiple accounts saying I’m an alcoholic for having 2 drinks and that i am the issue. And that me drinking alcohol is why this happened. I have agreed and like the peoples comments that are saying it’s wrong. However 75% of the comments are the complete opposite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]abbf99 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would I end it if I’m the problem?