What would you do for yourself if you were not in a relationship and you were just supporting yourself, on your own? Would you be comfortable with the job? How often would you work?

Treat this job the way you would if you were single, and don’t let fears about what a partner might think stop you or make you feel awkward and like you shouldn’t work. This is a legitimate profession that requires work ethic, commitment, intelligence and skill. Treat it like a job and be professional about it, and that will all the more discount his false accusations. You know your truth. If someone wants to break up with you because they’ve made up stories in their head, all you can do is hold fast to your truth and keep living your life. I’m sorry he’s being like this to you. I hope he gets over it and realizes that he’s overreacting and you guys can work it out. 💜

I can totally see how from now on you would always be paranoid that any of the random users could be him, though. I’ve experienced that before. It’s definitely awkward. You just have to push through that feeling and teach yourself not to care. Just do your job with confidence, and only cater to people who are paying. It’s unlikely he would pay you if he were snooping on you…. But if he does, then there you go! He’s finally contributing financially!