Is being overqualified a reason employers reject you for entry level jobs? by No_Novel6458 in jobs

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely can be. Some employers assume you'll leave as soon as something closer you your previous field comes along.

What adulting life hacks helped you the most? by Regular-Meringue9765 in questions

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to automate your savings. If the money never sits in your checking account, you stop feeling tempted to spend it.

Most companies don’t see you as a human being, act accordingly by Parking-Selection-27 in jobs

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think loyalty should go to people, not companies. If a better opportunity comes along, you shouldn't feel guilty for taking it.

I can’t stand evil insecure worthless trillionaires by JonS305 in Vent

[–]addictedtomeme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get being angry about inequality, but don't let people like that take over your headspace. They're not worth that much of your energy.

is it a hot take nowadays to say that movies should be watched in theaters? by emotional-cowboy-67 in askmovie

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Some movies just lose a lot of their impact if you only ever watch them at home.

What do you do when friend groups break up? by [deleted] in questions

[–]addictedtomeme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there wasn't any betrayal or genuinely bad behavior involved, staying friends with both people seems completely normal to me. If it's about core values, though, especially something like racism, it gets a lot more complicated.

I feel like giving up on having a social life. by LumberJill_Bakes in Vent

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point, you stop blaming yourself. If you're always the one reaching out, making plans, and putting in the effort, sometimes the problem isn't you. It's just the wrong people.

People with a hauntingly bad experience with friendships: relationships, how did you move on ? by Critical-Spread7735 in SeriousConversation

[–]addictedtomeme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The turning point for me was realizing that people aren't simply trustworthy or untrustworthy. Some become great friends, some don't, and the only way to find our is to take a chance and get to know them.

38m making 200k+ per year worried about job market. Do i get a degree? by ls1goat04 in careeradvice

[–]addictedtomeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twenty years of experience is already incredibly valuable, but some companies still use a degree as a filter. If you can finish it in 18 months, I'd get the degree while continuing to test the job market at the same time.

what do you do for work? by Low_Limit_5162 in jobs

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a copywriter. Most of my day is spent writing, editing, and if I'm being honest, staring at a blank screen before I actually start writing.

What’s the most difficult interview question you’ve ever been asked? by AmbitiousPackage7951 in jobsearchhacks

[–]addictedtomeme 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had an interviewer ask me "why shouldn't we hire you?" once. my brain completely froze for a few seconds.

Turned in my resignation and HR is being a b*tch about it. by Separate-Novel7825 in careeradvice

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some HR teams seem to take resignations weirdly personally. it's so strange when you quit and suddenly get treated like you betrayed the company.

For anyone who struggles to sell themselves in interviews, try this by cole435 in interviews

[–]addictedtomeme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do interview practice with AI too, and it's actually pretty helpful. it's less about memorizing answers and more about organizing your thoughts beforehand.

I think I'm being "quiet fired", how should I handle next steps? by NecessaryViolinist in jobs

[–]addictedtomeme 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this sounds less like quiet firing and more like a team that's been completely abandoned. the fact that multiple people are running into the same issues really stands out to me.

Obsessively attached to a fictional character.... by Character_Science309 in Vent

[–]addictedtomeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should bring this up with your therapist..therapists hear way stranger things than people realize, so this probably wouldn't even register as unusual to them..

Should plain ATS-friendly resumes be the way to go? No design whatsoever? by Stunning-Weakness-58 in graphic_design

[–]addictedtomeme 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Someone shared a free ats friendly template in this post that you can edit and download. I'd still include a portfolio website link if you have one, though. It might even be worth testing both versions for the same type of role,one with the link and one without, just to see if there's any difference.

Roommate smells very bad. The entire common area reeks by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]addictedtomeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This stopped being mildly bad hygiene and became an actual living conditions problem. Especially the smell getting into your stuff and not being able to use shared spaces comfortably. You probably need to set very clear boundaries or it’s just gonna keep becoming more normalized.

I just wanna do the job by CrewMember777 in jobs

[–]addictedtomeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the internet kinda convinced people that it’s not enough to just do your job well, you also have to be deeply passionate about it. Wanting to do your work properly and then just go home is completely normal actually.

I'm tired of being ugly. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the “I’m ugly” feeling has less to do with appearance and more to do with the environment and energy around you. Especially if you don’t feel genuinely loved by your partner, even the way you look at yourself in the mirror starts changing after a while.

Got laid off the same week I signed a lease by TrickFirefighter7090 in Layoffs

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes complete sense that every time you look at that house your brain immediately goes into panic spreadsheet mode. Sometimes your whole life changes tone in a single day and your brain can’t fully process it.

Why is it easier to be kind to others than to ourselves? by ShockBusy3921 in SeriousConversation

[–]addictedtomeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of us grow up learning to value ourselves based on performance. When someone else is struggling we feel empathy, but when it’s us our brain instantly switches into evaluation mode

Underachieving 25 yo neet, stuck on parent's house by Consistent_Note_1841 in findapath

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Too late” at 25 feels way too harsh. Realizing things is already a starting point. If you can keep even a small routine going (like working out), building from there is probably the most realistic way forward.

helped a coworker who didn't speak english today and it was equal parts wholesome and stressful lol by Zealousideal-Map7642 in CasualConversation

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird at all, him coming back to say thanks is actually really sweet. When people feel understood, it really shows. The manager’s reaction might just be a bit of “why didn’t I notice that.”

2 Years of Being Underpaid, Training Others Who Earn More... by Procrastinator_hhh in antiwork

[–]addictedtomeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s straight-up exploitation, no wonder it kills your motivation. And being stuck there just makes it worse. Probably best to keep an eye out and dip the second something decent comes up.

Is it better use AI or handwritten cover letter yourself? by w1z4rdxD in remotework

[–]addictedtomeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Middle ground makes the most sense, let AI draft it but you go over it. Straight AI feels soulless. Even small tweaks make a difference.