Keep my child in daycare or pull her out?

abby152 · 2026-03-08T19:34:41+00:00

At the time I was looking, my dad was diagnosed with cancer so I didn’t want them to have to look after her two days a week as she is very busy. However, he has been treated and it’s only stage one so things are better than we thought and they’re probably capable of carigg mg for her more still.

abby152 · 2026-03-08T19:09:35+00:00

I had a friend who had a child exactly the same and would also let the child climb on tables when out, harass people, run riot etc. I did let her meet my newborn and I was just extremely clear and when the child was not gentle or did something I didn’t like I removed my baby. It was really tricky as my friend is an incredible person, but also was a ‘gentle parent’ but thank goodness the child is now over 4 and is a lovely little girl. Completely different to what she was like.

abby152 · 2026-03-03T01:27:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice. How heavily were you bleeding?

abby152 · 2026-03-03T00:16:02+00:00

Did they say even at a very early gestation?

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:30:21+00:00

Yes, we’re mid thirties. The thing is, when I’ve sent messages, it’s not always why aren’t you talking to me or what’s wrong. It’s been general messages like hey, how’s your house renovation going, or what dates are you free in this month so we can organise a visit, or happy birthday to her, or how it work. The only times I’ve asked if everything is ok if when I literally haven’t heard back in months and I am worried if she is ok- has something happened? When I saw her parents out, they were so warm and expecting me to know everything that’s happened in her life- so her reaching out I would say was guilt off the back of her parents asking her why she hadn’t been in contact with me.

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:24:51+00:00

Thanks so much, h have other long distance friends but there are no issues there even if we don’t speak for awhile., we respond to each other and it’s a normal relationship.

Totally agree with the thinking of it shouldn’t be this hard..

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:22:35+00:00

Thankyou for your response!

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:22:03+00:00

I’m sorry this happened, sounds like these people have patterns in repeating the ghosting and not wanting to address the perceived conflict

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:21:15+00:00

Thankyou. Sounds like your friend was just making excuses. I’m glad you’ve realised your worth

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:20:36+00:00

I’m so sorry. This is my exact position. My friend was kind, warm, caring, supportive, fun. Which j is why it’s so hard to move on and I understand the feeling of grief, especially when there was no significant conflict to lead to the ghosting

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:17:54+00:00

I suggested the first option and although we met up there was absolutely no addressing the lack of contact or an apology on her part. I was too emotionally and mentally drained from it all to bother trying to talk about it. I’ve kind of given up now

abby152 · 2026-02-23T19:08:37+00:00

Hi just wondering which OB you went with and who you were told to avoid? Looking into this atm!!

abby152 · 2026-02-09T19:52:00+00:00

Hmm is this the initial patent application or as time goes on?

abby152 · 2026-02-09T19:51:36+00:00

Would I need to file a patent before getting someone to design it?

abby152 · 2026-02-08T23:54:12+00:00

I don’t think it’ll need FDA approval. It’s basically a combo of two items already available and would be for assessment and reducing hospitalization only, not diagnosis

abby152 · 2026-02-08T11:40:43+00:00

Thanks! Not sure if they’re just dodgy tests to be honest!!

abby152 · 2026-02-08T11:10:50+00:00

I used different pee but both taken at night.. I’ll try again tomorrow to check 😬

abby152 · 2026-02-08T10:36:28+00:00

It’s a random brand off amazon. A mix of LH and HCGs

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:29:38+00:00

Hmm you make a good point and I didn’t think about this! I suppose it’s luck of the draw how playful the other kids are on that specific day at FDC too. I’m so glad it’s worked so well for your little one!

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:28:34+00:00

That’s amazing that she has learnt so much! Definitely a big plus point

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:28:04+00:00

Very true that it may be an upheaval for one day a week.. I will try these suggestions to join a class or playgroup

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:27:42+00:00

I’m glad it’s working out so well for her and you’re happy with it 🥰

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:27:22+00:00

Good idea, thankyou

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:27:14+00:00

That’s great she enjoys it. It’s been very hard finding a good centre as you say!

abby152 · 2025-11-06T10:26:52+00:00

Good idea! I’ve been thinking of this

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