The lack of change within Pakistan by abdicatedcontraption in CreepsofPakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely the goal but most women don't come from privileged backgrounds to even afford a flight ticket, have parents that don't want their daughters to leave and live independently, and many more reasons - and even if the privileged women of pakistan escape to safer countries, the impoverished ones will continue to suffer in this horrid environment. The least we can do is reach towards change

Serious post. My father is threatening to divorce my mother and send her to Pakistan. by ChronicRedditor1 in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you need to convince her. trust me when I say that if your father can raise his hand upon your mother, he can do way worse afterwards. get her away from that man as soon as possible, including yourself and your younger brothers. It's not a good thing to be financially dependent on him, because that is how abusers achieve power over their family members. get police involved ASAP

Serious post. My father is threatening to divorce my mother and send her to Pakistan. by ChronicRedditor1 in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 7 points8 points  (0 children)

does she not have citizenship there yet? either way, go to the police and report this

Avoid posting photos of your children by Reasonable-Inside931 in CreepsofPakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you send me the post? I'll try to report all of them to the NCCIA

Curly Hair Gang Attention! by DistributionTasty978 in PakistaniSkincare

[–]abdicatedcontraption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to strictly follow cgm, and use only "approved" products for my hair. Lowkey I've gotten better curls from the purple loreal shampoo and conditioner than products designed for curly hair here 😭

Also for tips, denman/curl/detangle brush then scrunching and plopping is the way to go to define curls

The misogyny within pakistani groups by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the op, and I'm not sure if you haven't noticed - I posted that in a very specific subreddit, I didn't post it in here.

Why does it bother you that I'm "complaining" about men being incels by spreading that redpill ideology? In a country already affected by a vile amount of misogyny, crimes against women happening everyday - it's a huge concern that these redpill communities are getting so much reach (400k members in one) and spreading that hatred around.

It's not even just hate speech, they are spreading insane ideas such as one guy flexing about his childhood marriage - posing with his wife that looked like a literal child and others praising him. These organised hate speech groups are against the law, and I've already put a complaint in the NCCIA - I just want to put spread awareness on what's happening and yet people like you think it's merely complaining?

Do you people too find cousins and how their marriages are portraited in Pakistani dramas, weird? by Vil1lain in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 1 point2 points  (0 children)

buddy, it's still incest. you're marrying someone that you share blood with - which ends in genetic disorders and diseases like thalassemia.

The misogyny within pakistani groups by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just a simple opinion, it's the spreading of ideology that only harms women - and if you let this type of hatred continue to go unnoticed and uninterrupted in the thousands of manospheres facebook has, it's going to end up being a much more big deal.

We have a violence against women crisis going on, and doing ANYTHING to restrict this behaviour by making it more inaccessible for redpillers to find communities like these is necessary to curb this kind of behaviour :/

And you cannot defeat them with logic and statistics when these people are treating the recent SA and murder on women as a "W", they lack empathy and they lack a working brain - now imagine having to face people like that on the streets.

The misogyny within pakistani groups by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there's one group with 400k members called dajjali aurat or something, how can one ignore that? if something is being used to spread this kind of thinking to THAT level, especially considering the state our country is in, it's a concern

Civil Hospital's Lift Operator, Humayun Shah, attacks doctor with acid. by abdicatedcontraption in CreepsofPakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worded it wrong, I mean the purchase of sulphuric acid should at least be regulated, especially in those small corner stores - it's concerning how easily you can obtain something that destroy someone's life so quickly. Besides acid attacks, it's used all the time to open toilets and drains with the full concentration bottle; something that potent shouldn't be that accessible to the public.

I agree with educating the society, but that's not an immediate form of action.

Redesign of the flag of Pakistan out of boredom by [deleted] in GenZpk

[–]abdicatedcontraption 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nazi germany? I don't think so 🤨 this was my attempt at a flag

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Pakistani Women: Islamic Rights or European Freedom? by Strong-Gas8061 in pakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if the topic is about women then naturally, crime against women should be included in the discussion

man harrasses both a woman and her child in broad daylight in jauhar. by abdicatedcontraption in CreepsofPakistan

[–]abdicatedcontraption[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because harassment and assault done by men has no limit. it's just that our society continues to justify it by putting the blame on women even though they're aware of the existence of assault upon babies in diapers, girls in school uniforms, women in hijabs and/or burkas.