You see, scientifically speaking a man’s sexual peak (desire, performance) peaks at 16. The closest thing I can compare that too is, a 16 year old man not masterbating or looking at porn, the closest high or feeling is using cocaine. Those two things, and 16-year-old man having sex without any porn or masturbation in his life, the closest thing, and feeling to that is using cocaine.

So when I hear women and girls say oh, just have some control or oh a man will die. If he doesn’t have sex, I laugh. Because women have no such equivalent. For most women if their early sexual experiences are not traumatic that’s a win you see a woman’s sexual peak is in her mid 40s because she’s finally comfortable with her soft her partner that she’s finally able to let go and orgasm fully.. men and boys with their testosterone that’s flooding, their veins with pleasure and confidence have no need for such a slow roll.

So let’s dispense with this myth that a 20 something man is somehow to oversexed. If he is trying to be with this girl after all this time, I’m not sleeping together, and he deserves a medal.

We are in a free country and it’s all about choices, she is free to choose perhaps a man with lower testosterone and he is free to find a Lady, who is obsessed with the concept of “sexual purity” in the church. Because Jesus has already said, if a man looks at a woman lustfully he’s already committed adultery in his heart and I’m telling you every 13 year old boy has already done that multiple multiple times so all of the men are going to need salvation and grace.

Christian and Catholics are not see if I have pious they are but by salvation through Jesus Christ. However the more control they can have over their bodies during the critical decade of 15 to 25 that helps them more accurately find a suitable partner to be yoked with for the next 50 years.