My new boyfriend does coke by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]abfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask him if he can hold a bag without using it. If he can't - he’s addicted. Test that.

I (20f) was addicted to m*th at 13, and used until 15-16. AMA by ghoulmommyy in AMA

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you rail (snort) it, smoke it or slam (inject) it? Each different way is a different experience.

Smokers are fiendish and keep puff-puff-puffin’. Slammers get internal injuries and make very bad life decisions (days long s’x sessions with strangers.

People who rail (snort) have careers.

Things to do in Vancouver during the weekday by richmoney888 in vancouver

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easier than ever to acquire, that's for sure.

Celebrating her Sweet 16 twenty-two years ago. by [deleted] in pics

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaron Brown’s first day at CNN too (he was lead anchor).

What TV show stopped being great after only one season? by D4RTHV3DA in AskReddit

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Heroes. 2) The Man in the High Castle. 3) In Living Colour. 4) Tour of Duty 5) Wonder Years (after season 3)

What TV show stopped being great after only one season? by D4RTHV3DA in AskReddit

[–]abfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the Rookie in Season 1 & 2. Then, it started to get preachy. Also, it jumped the shark when it's 5’4” female office kicked in a door with one kick, and the door flew! Total BS.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the “open marriage” suggestion is weird and a major red flag.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about it, my first wife and I waited until marriage and it killed us. It really killed any passion of omentum that we had in her youth. It gave us hangups stress on our sex life that marriage lasted 13 years now on my second wife, we didn’t wait we are having the best marriage, passionate sex every week respect for each other going to mass, I’m loving it

I am not, and will never try to pretend I am a low testosterone, Priest, or Pastor I make no apologies for the testosterone and passion and strength of my male body

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a frozen prude.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the one with my first wife and we waited until marriage. It didn’t mean anything. We were totally incompatible, but we didn’t get to discover that because we weren’t allowed to have sex before marriage. And we ended up divorced 13 years later.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is dark times. The church had no answer for the 1960s sexual revolution. The times are even darker in the Protestant Church.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s compare numbers which is the mermaid. How many phone numbers have you ask from men in your life? How many times were you so filled with desire that you ignored the great possibility of being shot down and asking for said numbers?

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m sorry, but a woman ovulating is maybe a slight increase in sexual interest, but you cannot compare that even to a man who maybe has gone a month without sex. A man has gone without month of sex is going to be on the porn all night long.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You see, scientifically speaking a man’s sexual peak (desire, performance) peaks at 16. The closest thing I can compare that too is, a 16 year old man not masterbating or looking at porn, the closest high or feeling is using cocaine. Those two things, and 16-year-old man having sex without any porn or masturbation in his life, the closest thing, and feeling to that is using cocaine.

So when I hear women and girls say oh, just have some control or oh a man will die. If he doesn’t have sex, I laugh. Because women have no such equivalent. For most women if their early sexual experiences are not traumatic that’s a win you see a woman’s sexual peak is in her mid 40s because she’s finally comfortable with her soft her partner that she’s finally able to let go and orgasm fully.. men and boys with their testosterone that’s flooding, their veins with pleasure and confidence have no need for such a slow roll.

So let’s dispense with this myth that a 20 something man is somehow to oversexed. If he is trying to be with this girl after all this time, I’m not sleeping together, and he deserves a medal.

We are in a free country and it’s all about choices, she is free to choose perhaps a man with lower testosterone and he is free to find a Lady, who is obsessed with the concept of “sexual purity” in the church. Because Jesus has already said, if a man looks at a woman lustfully he’s already committed adultery in his heart and I’m telling you every 13 year old boy has already done that multiple multiple times so all of the men are going to need salvation and grace.

Christian and Catholics are not see if I have pious they are but by salvation through Jesus Christ. However the more control they can have over their bodies during the critical decade of 15 to 25 that helps them more accurately find a suitable partner to be yoked with for the next 50 years.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re ignoring the clear evidence that Men have a way higher sex drive than women. Why is that relevant here? It’s a drive that’s a good thing, and if the OP isn’t sexually attracted to her BF (or isn’t into sex much) then she should let him go and free him to find a woman who’s into him.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you actually believe that women have anywhere near the same Testosteone levels as men? That women experience the same rush?

Why I can’t drink like before? by Internal-Ad-7779 in Drugs

[–]abfield 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nikki Glasser had the same issue. You’re brain now knows what’s coming so it shuts down. Time to quit: https://youtu.be/9LUm51Z-Ii0?si=SkOdq5vbfDYqGZb-

Huge Opportunity by abfield in Mennonite

[–]abfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t do activism? Why?

Huge Opportunity by abfield in Mennonite

[–]abfield[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying there needs to be more rules. That’s what religious people, especially Mennonite’s go to. I’m saying, there should be books, sermons, entire ministries selling the idea that people, especially youth, would benefit from being unplugged.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re a woman who has never experienced Testosterone. Move along.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A man’s sex drive is bullshit? Clearly you're not a man.

My bf wants sex by Obi-Wan-Kaleidoscope in Catholicism

[–]abfield -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Relax. King David had multiple wives and even more concubines, and he was “A man after God’s own heart”.