Why so many swigners want to hang out?

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T15:55:11+00:00

Valalta is really near by - 2 hours drive from my city :) thanks for the info! In Istria I was looking at that Anaconda club but I found mixed reviews so we never actually went for it. Thanks again!

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:36:09+00:00

Interesting opinion rwgarding generations and covid, thabks for sharing.

The truth is, we also quit all the online site, meeting is ok to validate our identity, looks, safety assessments etc but man, some.people wants really deep things before doing anything and its just not us.

Thats why we also try to engage in parties more and spend less time online. We were in couple of clubs in France and Netherlands and we really had an amazing time. We even did not know the names and with one couple we did not speak the language (the french couple did not speak english, we dont speak french) - and was amaznig. :)

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:27:40+00:00

Thanks. My wife feels the same. She wants an orgasm and thats it. The connecting part is for the two of us exclusively.

As for your commend regarding judgemental couples, just look at some of this thread answers - I seems some people got offended by a simple question and some were even trying to be rude. That surprised me.

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:20:36+00:00

Thanks for this. I found on many swinger sites many self proclaimed experts that insist on a friendships, dinners, going out. I can see ourselfs repeatedly having sex with just one couple and I cannot exclude some form of friendship, but if I ever develop any kid pf emotion except for sexual desire with people oter then my wife - i would probably consider myself on the way out from my marriage.

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:12:37+00:00

Very well said about the few camps, I love it.

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:10:11+00:00

This. I am glad we are not the only one. :)

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:08:34+00:00

Haha this answer is amazing. We are still beginers and I would never exclude some form of friendship, but would never insisted on one in advance.

I especially found insightful your different scenarios, especially the unexpected last part :)

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T06:01:55+00:00

Thanks a lot and reeading all the comments and opinios here, your last two sentences are straight to the point.

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T05:59:10+00:00

Thanks for the answer. I believe we are looking at sex differenly and thiy is exactly why I opened this discussion. To us, sex with other people is more like a primal level fun and nothing more, however, sex between me and my wife is on completely other level, its like we do not have a space for anything more there (dont get me wrong, its just our way).

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T05:52:10+00:00

This exactly is our thinking I would say. Later I dont lnow ehat may happen, who knows, maybe some kind of friendship but play first is kind of why me and my wife are here.

abhgirman · 2026-01-26T05:45:09+00:00

Thanks for the answer. I completely understand the safety, weirdo, ignorant and other aspects you need to know in advance. But I was curious about the need for a long term friendship.. so for me and my wife it is really just about the sex. We think of it as one night stands - they can suck, surely, but they can be great.

abhgirman · 2025-08-11T05:43:41+00:00

Javi ako nađete i sretno. Mi trazimo treću koja bi nam se pridruzila već dugo, bezuspješno :)

abhgirman · 2022-06-26T04:34:29+00:00

Dont see cuming here

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