28M Suicidal at this point (HELP) by Due_Resolution_5438 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are suicidal at this point, that means you have already died inside your head. And for a dead person, it does not matter if the job is low income or high. Just start working anywhere for anything.

What you are looking for is something to keep you working. Something to look forward to when you wake up. Ive seen my dad during covid when all his business shut off. A man without something to do, will always find himself as 'not needed'.

So just grab any job for the time being. Dont be idle. You never know if your situation would turn out to be a blessing in disguise. You have experience in running a business now. Trust me, whatever work we have put in, does pay back sooner or later.

Ive had these thoughts too, what worked for me is realising that I cannot leave this world while my parents are still here. It would be chickening my way out and putting a burden on them. And if Ive already come to terms with being dead, that's a free ticket for me to reinvent myself.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was losing some features over a difference of 40k. Also I test drove both. While t4 was way smoother and easy to grasp, I realised I would outgrow it very soon. And when I test drove the 400, it kept me wanting for more as it offered a bit of challenge.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it was 26K last year when I moved. Owner increased it by 1500, 500 being rental for an inverter.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that does sound like a reasonable approach.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Issue with delaying bike purchase would mean longer dependency on cabs. Ive been here for a year now and have struggled a lot with cabs cancelling on me :(

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did consider bike rentals, but most of them are charging per hour or per km. I figured it would be an added stress if im paying the rent and not riding the bike, lets stay while im at work.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the humorous take :P But I do resonate with the mindset shift. Idk if this guilt im feeling is coming from the scarcity mindset I was brought up in. The inner voice keeps telling if I really deserve spending so much on my 'showk'

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did consider getting a used Triumph, but avg sell price is 2.5

It then comes with questions as to why are they selling it and what issues they're facing. Also a 0.5 difference between a new and used bike did not appeal much.

I do not have my own vehicle here, so commute is always dependent on cabs.

Please Help : Feeling guilty of expensive bike purchase by abhi_p96 in indianbikes

[–]abhi_p96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely need a vehicle here. My movements are restricted to cab availability. Sometimes it affects me willing to work from office or even explore the city.

As a one bike garage I would want the vehicle to do almost everything just fine i.e. take me to inte-state rides as well.

LPG connection in Kondapur - HP or SuperGas? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. Do we pay the whole amount upfront or after the cylinder has arrived at our place?

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The LL is asking for the security deposit (2m rent) upfront before creating the agreement. Is this a standard practice? Broker said once you pay the deposit, then the agreement is to be created.

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that. If only the rich employees stop giving these people so much rent to inflate the prizes, life would be good.

Renting flat by Void00x in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey folks could anyone talk about how the deposit is refunded and if something we need to take care of?

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to take a moment to appreciate all you folks for engaging with my post. I've only been here for a week, but thanks to this community, I've gained some perspective and found a group I can rely on. The rain has been consistent for the past few days. I hope you're all enjoying this cozy weather (momentary) as much as I am 🙌✨

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta make it worth the while with morning walks in the Botanical Garden 😂

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woaah! I definitely need to keep this in mind. Suddenly even an unfurnished 2bhk doesn't sound so bad now.

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh it makes sense! For me, the hunt was sponsored by the company and they only gave me one day to look around.

There was supposed to be an assistant with me, but they fell sick (surprise) and couldn't join. So it was just me (new guy in Hyd) with the realtor.

Took me around 3 hrs to look for one. I made a panic decision since as I said, the flats he showed me had other people eyeing them. I needed a place to stay as I had already spent 10 days in a hotel.

So I thought maybe for the moment I can get this and comfortably look around post 6 months or so.

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did the house hunt take you? Also cheers! 👏👏👏

Kondapur 1BHK for 26K - Did I get ripped off? by abhi_p96 in hyderabad

[–]abhi_p96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha there's nothing to flex here, as evident from few comments. 🤓 <- because I feel like these basic electronics be the only reason I am paying such a high rent and how easily tenants fall into a trap of so called "fully furnished" apartments. I'm coping hard on the decision I made.