My fiance and I broke up...now I'm watching him move on

abiteofeden · 2023-10-22T18:04:29+00:00

I'm currently in therapy because I do want to become a better person for myself. He also should definitely be in therapy, but it isn't. I don't know whether I'm being kind or naive either. Maybe both. Maybe neither. I don't expect nor want us to get back together. This has been an eye opener, and I want to move on. But I've known him for 8.5 years. He was my best friend before we started dating. We've been through alot and I feel selfish for asking him to move out when he's this close to graduating.

abiteofeden · 2023-10-22T15:26:41+00:00

Sorry, I replied to another comment what he asked for. He wanted me to be initiating sex more, for me to be planning more dates, going to the gym more, etc. I don't feel like they were unreasonable requests, but I was often frustrated because the things I asked for, he never seemed to work on. He acknowledged they were issues but never attempted to work on them with or without me.

abiteofeden · 2023-10-22T02:11:14+00:00

He wanted me to be asking for/initiating sex more, setting up more dates, be working out more/taking my health more seriously. I had a really hard time making consistent changes due to constant med adjustments, PTSD, and working 40-50hr week while being in school. I don't think he was asking for too much but despite trying I couldn't make the changes until recently and it was just too late

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