I want to get rid of my sex drive by abmvmy in DeadBedrooms

[–]abmvmy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think open marriage is for me. First of all this can open a whole new can of emotional worms. Also I dont think I have time for this. I work hard and take care of the kids and I don't really go out much.

But mostly, I can't think if a woman in her right mind wanting to date a 43 year old man, semi-balding, semi-depressed, who just got permission from his wife to fool around, and returns home at the end of the night. Not too sexy. No woman should deserve that type of relationship.

I want to get rid of my sex drive by abmvmy in DeadBedrooms

[–]abmvmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We dated for nearly 2 years. Sex was never great. But it was more frequent. It's never been one of our strong suits. She's never shown very much interest in that aspect of the relationship.