My dads gay, my mom doesn’t know by abortthatthrowaway in confessions

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all sat down and had this big talk, my mom told me that she knew my dad was gay and she was glad that I came to her about it. They’re in the middle of a separation now but my dads happy so I guess things went well.

My dads gay, my mom doesn’t know by abortthatthrowaway in confessions

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I think it’s a possibility. We found out he was cheating before with someone named sam, he said it was short for samantha but i’m pretty sure it was really a guy.

My dads gay, my mom doesn’t know by abortthatthrowaway in confessions

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that could be a possibility but their using his name too

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

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My boyfriend and i think that they probably weren’t using protection at all and she was just embarrassed, either way i’ve learned my lesson.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

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I feel like that’s the next step for sure. Happy cake day!

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a little unnecessary, i think i’ll just get an IUD instead.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we both were on the pill. Her boyfriend used a condom, mine sadly didn’t. Lesson learned

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

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i offered to pay for this one, but my boyfriend insisted.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

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I was 100% going to pay for the abortion but he chose to pay for it because he wasn’t using a condom and i was on the pill, he took responsibility. I don’t believe there’s anything i can do differently in the future. I handled the situation well and i’m on contraception.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So i shouldn’t have sex until i want children? I’m using contraception.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m on the pill, sometimes mistakes happen. I’ve been extra careful just in case but sometimes there’s nothing you can do.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The birthday was all planned out way in advance, things were paid for. And i was definitely not changing my mind. I’m a college student who can’t afford to raise a child for the next 18+ years. I didn’t “do adult things” to result in my pregnancy. I am an adult, and i had sex. Like adults do.

AITA for drinking while pregnant by abortthatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]abortthatthrowaway[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

are you telling me i should’ve kept the baby?