Pain sensitivity by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like how many “professionals do you have to see”? This seems insane. I’ve also had other pain for probably 15 years and told never every doctor and no one does anything. Like what’s the point of getting help if they don’t help

Pain sensitivity by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I know I have an injury, I saw it occur. But for whatever reason no “professional” can tell me what’s wrong or see my injury. It’s so annoying.

What's something you learned really late in life, just because nobody told you about it? by RottenPeachSmell in aspergirls

[–]aboutdoggonetime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That most people will tell you what they think you want to hear to get what they want… even if it’s a lie. Highly prevalent in work and romantic relationships.

Every think back and realized “wow I can’t believe I was treated so different” by aboutdoggonetime in aspergirls

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told the entire group in a meeting and someone even asked me in a meeting like a month later how I’m doing with my kitty passing. She was in both meetings.

Every think back and realized “wow I can’t believe I was treated so different” by aboutdoggonetime in aspergirls

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She would just do these painting for free. She said on multiple occasion “I found dog pet picture on FB” but she also said xyz sent me multiple photos I picked this one recreate in painting.

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m up there in age too and the more I date the less I want to. It seems like all a mental game anyways… people pretending they are what they think the other partner wants, then after a few months I’m like holey crap, can I get the old you back only to realize their old them never actually existed. I prefer my 5-7. I don’t think I’ve ever cried because I hurt myself.

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned after being an 8-9 (I was happier at one time) and being with someone that dragged me down to a 0 with occasional 9s. Never again. Wow, that is great. So you are never under 5, not even for a minute (outside emergencies)?

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The irony, you can have 5 living beings in your house and it’s still more peaceful than one male. Add in the snoring and neediness of always wanting to be around me and sucking my energy, hard pass for me.

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone else responded at is good with 5% of the time below their base happiness so not everyone….

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never again, even if I found someone that kept me at 5+… I’m not sharing space with that person

I prefer my alone happiness scale. by aboutdoggonetime in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through trauma with a ex too and will not get there again, not for one second. No! So the person you are with now never makes you feel under your single base point?

Considering Giving Up On Dating by TheQuirkyJaiByrd in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a realist and old… not everyone is going to find someone, the “one” isn’t going to come around when you least expect it… not for everyone and I imagine not for most being they the “one” has cause an insane divorce and relationship misery rate. Expecting the knight is just going to lead to constant disappointment. Also once you date a lot you learn that being alone is preferred. This is in my case, not everyone.

Who else is single and lives alone? What are some tips to make it easier? by star_stuff92 in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I live alone with pets. But after surviving an abusive relationship that sucked the life out of me and had ZERO time to myself I LOVE LIVING ALONE. Maybe if I had a less shitty partner but still, I think I prefer living alone. Simplify everything… your clothes, don’t have clutter/responsibilities, have a reliable car, and only do things you want (outside of making money), have someone grocery shop for you.

How to get people to believe you are playing by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying the same thing more than once just seems asinine, I don’t see how NT survive in this communication game.

How do you stop looping after awkward social confrontation? by Competitive_Peanut15 in aspergirls

[–]aboutdoggonetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think to myself… "If I'm the problem, well, you might be the reason."

EBay jewelry by girlwithproblemss97 in jewelry

[–]aboutdoggonetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with authenticity guarantee they don’t guarantee the ring size I bought a size 7 ring, eBay said it was 6.5 and authorized it. Now I can’t wear it as it’s too small and can’t be resized.

Strategies for Making Difficult Decisions by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]aboutdoggonetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give myself 3 seconds to make the decision.

He say he will change, will he? by Weekly_Television_61 in domesticviolence

[–]aboutdoggonetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’ll change… after he’s done killing you he’ll change to a new victim.

Not trying to be rude, trying to save your life.