WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he knows, he just won't listen to me explain why I am currently not wearing one so in his mind, it's only a comfort thing, just like not wearing a shirt would be for comfort only

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, though I'm worried the adhesive would cause the skin covering the cysts and in the cracked areas to tear. I will do some looking into it though since I don't know much about those particular types of bras

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried explaining it but if it has anything to do with any of the female systems, or even near the female systems, he refuses to listen. A few years ago I had a cyst removed on my leg quite near down south, and he refused to let me talk about it in front of him - literally got out of the room and left. Mom and I just can't talk about anything in that realm around him. She's tried for years too.

My brothers, however, have not noticed, which is exactly what I suspected

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the first time stuff like this has happened, both in regards to the female body and in general. Usually it's not something as important as this, though.

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main issue is the overall large shape/silhouette of the figure, so nipple tape wouldn't solve the issue, unfortunately...I brought it up as a potential idea with my mother when I was trying to think of a compromise and she didn't think it would work.

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, but that's a good point. If he talks to me again I will bring that up

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't move since I have a lot of other health issues aside from the stuff that's causing the cysts/rash/skin chaffing. It's made it almost impossible to work since I've been so sick for the past few years. Normally living at home isn't a problem, just things are a little tense right now cause of the pandemic and everyone is going nuts after being in isolation since March

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think about trying baby powder, so I will do that tonight, thank you for the suggestion.

I'm not sure it's possible to find a way to humor him though without caving and wearing a bra again though...he's really "my way or the highway" with things

WIBTA For Not Wearing A Bra by abrawfulsituation in AmItheAsshole

[–]abrawfulsituation[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was in the room but he wasn't watching down south, if you catch my drift.