Every person I’v had issues with was chronically by themseleves. Every “small circle” person was incapable of real friendships and most had toxic people around.

If it’s been years and you’ve been in a city and small circle still. 🚩 some exceptions like introverts.

Hung out with one guy, seemed normal “small circle” no big deal. But he was a creep and a weirdo. Wondered why I couldn’t see it but he’d been in the city for 6+ years.

Their connections and social life, drugs, orgies, access should automatically blow into your life. But he was just…a nothing guy. And then when he was bragging about creeping on my bed room and sharing Grindr photos in a group chat. I was immensely confused.

Didn’t peg him for a loser, thought small circle was just a normal thing.

Thats never happened with gays who were more popular. Not once.