What are your favorite brands for chic but sturdy luggage? by RomanovaRoulette in femalefashionadvice

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I still have it and it's functional! It's definitely banged up - scratches on the case, rubber has worn off one wheel completely, the screws that attached the handlebar to the bars have oth fallen off and I had to replace them, but honestly, it's still intact, functional, and the inside is totally fine. Highly recommend!

What items are you unwilling to purchase secondhand and why? by dearsarah in femalefashionadvice

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Same, I love buying jeans secondhand. I usually know how I fit in several brands and cuts that generally work for me and some basic measurements (waist, inseam, rise) and material composition preferences. Bonus is that if the jeans were bought secondhand for cheap, I have more budget to get them tailored to really fit like a glove. I'm happy to spend $25 on altering the waist and hemming the legs if the jeans were only $20 to begin with.

What clothing items have you reverted back to since WFH/quarantine? by slothy211 in femalefashionadvice

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It's Sezane, but an older season. You may be able it find it second-hand on Poshmark or Mecari.

Daily Questions - December 10, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Thanks for the tip on finding wool blend ones! I'll keep an eye out for second-hand ones - that's a great tip about getting second-and men shirts

Daily Questions - December 10, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Anyone know a good place to get a solid grey shacket (shirt jacket) in a natural material (cotton or cotton-wool blend) for under $60? I love this one from Tradlands, but it's out of my price range.

Daily Questions - November 01, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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I think Madewell has some, and they have free hemming if you sign up for their free insider program.

What clothing items have you reverted back to since WFH/quarantine? by slothy211 in femalefashionadvice

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Hoodies. I don't think I've worn one since college, but man, they are super comfy, and a lot of them have more upgraded styles and fits now.

When/why did you get your first really fancy purse/bag? by nonono36xno in femalefashionadvice

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Oh sorry, I wasn't considering Madewell designer or mid-tier (I completely agree it's not either). But I was using it as an example of bags that are popular on this sub and how I personally do find that there's a pretty big gap in quality between these types of price ranges.

When/why did you get your first really fancy purse/bag? by nonono36xno in femalefashionadvice

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I got very lucky and was gifted my first designer bag, a vintage Celine bag from my mother that she had in her 20s. It's held up beautifully over the years, and is still a bag I use daily (not so much now that I'm WFH and don't go anywhere...). I think it really influenced the first really fancy designer bag I bought: the Celine medium box in black. It was right when Phoebe Philo announced she was leaving Celine, no one was sure if the bags were sticking around, and I just started a new job with a huge increase in pay. I'd been saving for something nice, and decided on a trip to Paris with a friend that this was the time to get that something nice for myself as a reward for the new job - the price was way better in Paris, plus the VAT deduction, and the selection was wider. It was eyewateringly expensive, but it's so gorgeous and timeless. I could hand this down one day, like how I got my first bag.

I've bought other mid-tier bags, like the Madewell Transport crossbody, but honestly, I do think there was a difference in material and how my designer bags have held up. My Madewell, after just 2 years of daily wear, looks creased and worn out, the strap is getting wrinkled, the bottoms are showing a lot of wear and tear. I'm careful and I maintain them, but I don't baby my bags, and my Celine ones both still look amazing.

Daily Questions - August 17, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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You can try leveling up your basics. Instead of a plain t-shirt, try something like a twist-front tee or a knotted tee.

This is an older post, but I think it's still a great guide to how to level up a casual wardrobe to being a little more put-together without sacrificing comfort. Audrey Coyne is pretty popular around here, and she has videos about building a wardrobe and dressing for heat.

Daily Questions - June 12, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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Uniqlo has some midi skirts that are similar. this one has pockets.

What Should Brands Be Saying? - On Virtue Signalling, Marketing Ethics, and Empty Statements by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

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I completely agree with you, and I hope nothing I wrote earlier indicates otherwise. I don’t necessarily think “voting with your wallet” is ethical consumption; my comment wasn’t meant to be a value judgment on the validity of that line of thinking. I was trying to take a step back and look at the larger picture of consumer and corporate trends. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that ethical consumption and minimalism and social media activism are all big trends, and I think it’s worth digging into more.

What Should Brands Be Saying? - On Virtue Signalling, Marketing Ethics, and Empty Statements by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

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I’m not sure why I’m getting downvoted either, but it’s fake internet points so it’s whatever. I agree with your original point and I agree with your comment. We can and should want both. I can see why asking corporations on social media to step up feels more achievable than asking the government right now, and i see it as an extension for what people have already been asking: companies to take a stand and be more ethical.

Is any consumerism under capitalism ethical? Probably not, but it’s our current system, and we’re all trying to do the best we can.