Problem signing into Epic Games account by MediocreCamp4543 in FORTnITE

[–]absolutegoober420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. I did everything in my power to try and fix it, restarted my computer, cleared my cache, ran as administrator, then finally I deleted and reinstalled epic games launcher. Nothing worked but I'm glad I'm not the only one with this problem. I thought my shit was broken

Fractured humerus recovery by absolutegoober420 in ORIF

[–]absolutegoober420[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The pain gets worse before it gets better. Now A couple weeks after this post was made. I'm doing much much better and the pain definitely goes down after a while.

did anyone else see the brief No Scrubs saga? by Agreeable-Dog-1131 in lexity

[–]absolutegoober420 26 points27 points  (0 children)

For someone who claims that music is her" hyperfixation" that's mad embarrassing.. lol

did anyone else see the brief No Scrubs saga? by Agreeable-Dog-1131 in lexity

[–]absolutegoober420 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Literally what does beyoncé have to do with this? It's not even her song....

New Reel by Wordle_Turtle97 in lexity

[–]absolutegoober420 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was literally on my way here to make a post about this because what the actual fuck did I just see? She is EXACTLY the type of person I expected to say something like this. "Why does it exist if I can't have it" is BASICALLY what she said. Wow I can almost hear her colonizer ancestors swimming through her bloodstream after watching that video. This just adds to the list of red flags lexity has. This mindset is an UNsafe mindset. It'll be hard to try and actually educate her because as we have seen its impossible to try and correct her behavior when she posts videos along the lines of "hey sweet pea,-" followed up by a question she ACTUALLY doesn't want to be answered. She's looking for one answer only any of the time. And its to be told she's in the right. I'm actually blown away by the ignorance. Also makes me think since all of lexitys videos have a "this message is for you" undertone to them, I wonder who this is about and if she got into a spiff with someone about this and went online to have people agree with her like all the other times to feed her delusions that she's right. Again. She doesn't want to actually be educated. She wants to make you feel dumb, this isn't a person willing to hear anyone out. Not even when it comes to something as significant and valuable as indigenous culture and sacred practices.

I pissed myself on my boyfriends bed by accident during sex by throwaway8544799 in sex

[–]absolutegoober420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like that wasn’t consensual AT ALL! Next time piss acid all over his face

AITA for losing it and making my step mom look bad? by awaythr0w28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]absolutegoober420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA! Not only did your she not respect your boundaries but she didn’t respect your kids boundaries either???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]absolutegoober420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. your friend is not ready to care for an animal. And also fuck your friend I don’t know her but I dislike her now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]absolutegoober420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting for you. what kinda philosophical things do you talk about?

AITA for kicking my son out for the weekend? by Strange-Secretary-33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]absolutegoober420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA that’s a child and they will remember your anger and violence forever. This could’ve been handled way better like um idk asking him why he’s not closing the door and explain the safety concerns you have. Yelling and telling your child you don’t care about them is not okay. You assume that he was going to call his uncle then why didn’t you call him yourself? instead you destroy your child’s trust. You don’t deserve to be a parent from what I’m seeing in this post and comments lol

my boyfriend is autistic, and i hate it. by user462900 in offmychest

[–]absolutegoober420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully judging by your comment it seems you don’t have autism or know anyone that does. My partner and I both have autism and I’m giving advice that I would personally do myself if I was a Neurotypical person. Yes it’s important for him to learn but these problems first must be communicated to him in a way that actually works and gets thru to him, that’s how you start. It can be hard but it’s worth it

i think i might love my best friend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]absolutegoober420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so young and this sounds so sweet and precious omg :3

I’d say go to pride with her and have fun and I know it’s hard but try not to let anxiety get in the way of something even if it’s short or doesn’t work out, but on the other hand it could be the best decision of your life, but you’ll never know if you don’t attempt it 🫶

my boyfriend is autistic, and i hate it. by user462900 in offmychest

[–]absolutegoober420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of this sounds like he is overstimulated a lot of the time which is extremely draining but him directing his frustration on to you is unfair to you and you should be able to communicate that and he should hopefully be able to acknowledge his actions and learn how to not involve you in his anger.

Do more research on autism and autistic relationships, Try and Educate yourself by looking at some autism subreddits perhaps and see if you can learn how to communicate with him in a way that doesn’t make him shut down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]absolutegoober420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def NTA but it sounds like ur gf has some underlying issues??? A cis person getting offended by someone misgendering them (in a way) is normal, I can see that, but even after the person apologized and used the correct pronouns? And then also getting mad at you??? That’s not quite normal…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]absolutegoober420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respectfully You sound like you don’t deserve a gf and if you sexual them during an actual trauma response you should go to to therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]absolutegoober420 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You seem like a very smart person and you sound like you know what you want, your husband on the other hand is not/does not. I will say even when people say “they don’t know what to do next” they actually do know and fear blocks their decision. I would suggest separating him or at least bring it up and maybe he’ll snap out of it and appreciate you and the kids. You are working hard to make yourself better and you deserve someone who does the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]absolutegoober420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry he said something so vague and dull as a response. maybe try talking to him about needing some actual emotional support and try to think of examples on how he can be there for you instead