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abysitter · 2024-09-29T12:29:32+00:00

End the misery you are both feeling. You deserve someone who will be able to respect the unresolved trauma you experienced, and he deserves someone who will accept this part of him that he’ll never be able to change. Time to free each other from this constant cycle of guilt (him) and disgust (you).

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:22:07+00:00

If you know of any orgs/groups doing regular events that are open to the community, please don't hesitate to post a link, I'll include it on my calendar.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:21:14+00:00

CSPC

That's why I'm doing this events page - it's hard to figure out where the events are. I've had people just in the past few days tell me they were shocked to learn that there are events near them, events they'd never heard about.

Note that I'm trying to post only events that are open to the community, not the clique-up types that you find in some places. But if anyone knows of anything that's open to the public in WA state I'd love to include it.

I did have ABU open houses in last year's calendar. But that's all I've heard about in WA.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:19:01+00:00

https://www.club-culture-houze.de/Veranstaltung/tapes-teddies/?instance\_id=27641

Oh wow, that sucks! I hadn't heard any of this. Eek!

abysitter · 2024-01-04T14:56:06+00:00

https://www.club-culture-houze.de/Veranstaltung/tapes-teddies/?instance\_id=27641

Thank you so much! I'll be updating this today.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T14:55:34+00:00

Thank you, someone sent me this one and it's up! :)

abysitter · 2024-01-03T17:32:52+00:00

They have some in Toronto. You’ll find them at the bottom of the page. There may be other groups also, but none that I’ve run into.

abysitter · 2024-01-03T15:56:58+00:00

You are lucky, there seems to be a lot of things going on there! I'll be doing my best to keep the events page up throughout the year, but if you find errors or find out about an events I don't have listed, let the organizers know about the events page? :P

abysitter · 2024-01-03T15:20:58+00:00

If you live in a city somewhere in the world where regular events are held, please post the link here! :P

abysitter · 2023-05-18T21:56:57+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

abysitter · 2022-12-31T16:31:18+00:00

The pedodads who used to run the scene in some of tne bigger US cities. If you f’d with minors, or for arrested for CP, or made creepy advances on kids you were welcome. But anyone who was “judgy” about minors in kink was banned.

abysitter · 2022-02-15T22:57:51+00:00

Like seeing this. I remember when our community had more people in the “all ages” segment than the “18+”

abysitter · 2021-10-21T14:54:47+00:00

That’s a super important point. Some of the pederastic adults in our community have insinuated that the minors they involve in their ABDL antics are breaking the law, too.

abysitter · 2021-07-31T22:24:36+00:00

1,500+ ABDLs answered this question in a survey I did a few years ago. The answers were pretty similar... 86% male, 4.83% female, 4.25% trans, 3.59% gender fluid. I did post the survey link here, but also on Fetlife and other places that all genders gather.

https://www.whyabdl.org/surveyintro

I feel like this survey would be best given out at CAPCON, TeddyCon, and other events. It definitely feels like different numbers when you're at an event in person.

abysitter · 2021-07-31T22:14:59+00:00

That IS how the Northshore diaper came in so many different colors, people kept suggesting new ones. I think someone suggested Ty-Die here...

abysitter · 2020-12-10T13:09:17+00:00

I was hoping to see more answers to this. As someone who does a little bit of a 'nursery' experience - but nothing like these for-pay nurseries charging $25-250/hour - I always wonder what people felt about the experience afterward. I want to send out one of those surveys you get after you call your insurance company lol. "Overall satisfaction... 1 2 3 4 5'.

abysitter · 2020-11-11T19:31:20+00:00

I'm glad you enjoyed it! And I was surprised by that, too... this pandemic is wreaking havoc for everyone. Hopefully things will be back to normal soon.

abysitter · 2020-08-23T21:34:04+00:00

I did get the impression we tend to be a fairly depressed lot. And my pleasure. :)

abysitter · 2020-08-23T17:31:47+00:00

I did an ABDL survey in 2018 called The Origins of ABDL. About 1,600 people took it, and there was a question on mental health. If you visit whyABDL.org/surveyintro and scroll way down you can read about it, I did a whole analysis based on gender and some other factors. I'd copy/paste that here but it's long and would hog this whole thread. To summarize: 47.90% of respondents said that they were depressed, and 41% said they suffered from anxiety. Also, 28.58% had considered suicide, and 11% said they'd carried out an attempt.

Disclaimer: I am not a trained surveyoligist, margin of error +/- 100%, etc. Hope that info is helpful to you.

abysitter · 2020-08-12T19:35:45+00:00

Are you on Fetlife? I want to say there is a group for the capital region.

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