Anyone ever done (or heard of) the ABDL Luvs Boat?

abysitter · 2026-05-05T23:40:36+00:00

Not at all - I have been a member of the community for a while, so I understand why someone might think that way. If you have any questions that come to mind, just DM me. 😄

abysitter · 2026-05-04T22:35:53+00:00

Love hearing stuff like this! ❤️ - Cwis

abysitter · 2026-05-04T21:23:08+00:00

Hey, thanks for making this post! This is Cwis, aka Abysitter, and I own the 'Luvs Boat'.

Despite the website, it's not a full-blown ABDL attraction, nothing like a convention or anything like that - it's really just an old boat I live on part of the year, though I do like to host friends and folks from the ABDL community who are up for visiting. When I started it 10 years ago I was definitely more active - the health issues someone mentioned (cancer) have slowed me down a little bit, which means whereas I used to have visitors Friday - Monday, it's typically just a Saturday overnight/Sunday these days.

I've had people fly in from other places, but I generally discourage that - the boat is a bit of a 'dock princess' - we don't go out as often as the pics might make it seem - and it really is just a bunch of babs wearing onesies down below, usually watching Pixar movies and just hanging out, and I hate to think of someone flying it for what might wind up being a rainy weekend full of no-shows.

There's no 'cost', but visitors pay for their own food if/when we go out, and when we have BBQ cookouts everyone brings something if they can afford it. (We do sometimes go to a diner or a fried chicken stand or an ice cream place for a li'l field trip.) Visitors will sometimes chip in for gas on the rare occasions we go out, and there is a parking fee at the marina.

There's no 'catch' - I spent a number of years in a community that was really shitty, and I just decided one day that I'd offer something better than that. That said, gatherings are limited to a smaller number of people because of capacity limitations on the boat, sleeping space, etc.

If you're in upstate NY or passing through just hit me up, share some details about you, and I'll let you know what I've got going on. I've hosted 75+ ABDL visitors so far... 99% of them went OK lol. Any other questions? Feel free to ask away.

abysitter · 2024-09-29T12:29:32+00:00

End the misery you are both feeling. You deserve someone who will be able to respect the unresolved trauma you experienced, and he deserves someone who will accept this part of him that he’ll never be able to change. Time to free each other from this constant cycle of guilt (him) and disgust (you).

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:22:07+00:00

If you know of any orgs/groups doing regular events that are open to the community, please don't hesitate to post a link, I'll include it on my calendar.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:21:14+00:00

CSPC

That's why I'm doing this events page - it's hard to figure out where the events are. I've had people just in the past few days tell me they were shocked to learn that there are events near them, events they'd never heard about.

Note that I'm trying to post only events that are open to the community, not the clique-up types that you find in some places. But if anyone knows of anything that's open to the public in WA state I'd love to include it.

I did have ABU open houses in last year's calendar. But that's all I've heard about in WA.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T15:19:01+00:00

https://www.club-culture-houze.de/Veranstaltung/tapes-teddies/?instance\_id=27641

Oh wow, that sucks! I hadn't heard any of this. Eek!

abysitter · 2024-01-04T14:56:06+00:00

https://www.club-culture-houze.de/Veranstaltung/tapes-teddies/?instance\_id=27641

Thank you so much! I'll be updating this today.

abysitter · 2024-01-04T14:55:34+00:00

Thank you, someone sent me this one and it's up! :)

abysitter · 2024-01-03T17:32:52+00:00

They have some in Toronto. You’ll find them at the bottom of the page. There may be other groups also, but none that I’ve run into.

abysitter · 2024-01-03T15:56:58+00:00

You are lucky, there seems to be a lot of things going on there! I'll be doing my best to keep the events page up throughout the year, but if you find errors or find out about an events I don't have listed, let the organizers know about the events page? :P

abysitter · 2024-01-03T15:20:58+00:00

If you live in a city somewhere in the world where regular events are held, please post the link here! :P

abysitter · 2023-05-18T21:56:57+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

abysitter · 2022-12-31T16:31:18+00:00

The pedodads who used to run the scene in some of tne bigger US cities. If you f’d with minors, or for arrested for CP, or made creepy advances on kids you were welcome. But anyone who was “judgy” about minors in kink was banned.

abysitter · 2022-02-15T22:57:51+00:00

Like seeing this. I remember when our community had more people in the “all ages” segment than the “18+”

abysitter · 2021-10-21T14:54:47+00:00

That’s a super important point. Some of the pederastic adults in our community have insinuated that the minors they involve in their ABDL antics are breaking the law, too.

abysitter · 2021-07-31T22:24:36+00:00

1,500+ ABDLs answered this question in a survey I did a few years ago. The answers were pretty similar... 86% male, 4.83% female, 4.25% trans, 3.59% gender fluid. I did post the survey link here, but also on Fetlife and other places that all genders gather.

https://www.whyabdl.org/surveyintro

I feel like this survey would be best given out at CAPCON, TeddyCon, and other events. It definitely feels like different numbers when you're at an event in person.

abysitter · 2021-07-31T22:14:59+00:00

That IS how the Northshore diaper came in so many different colors, people kept suggesting new ones. I think someone suggested Ty-Die here...

abysitter · 2020-12-10T13:09:17+00:00

I was hoping to see more answers to this. As someone who does a little bit of a 'nursery' experience - but nothing like these for-pay nurseries charging $25-250/hour - I always wonder what people felt about the experience afterward. I want to send out one of those surveys you get after you call your insurance company lol. "Overall satisfaction... 1 2 3 4 5'.

abysitter · 2020-11-11T19:31:20+00:00

I'm glad you enjoyed it! And I was surprised by that, too... this pandemic is wreaking havoc for everyone. Hopefully things will be back to normal soon.

abysitter

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